We chose to start with private at K for many reasons, including that we thought our child would get distracted in a big class, we really value the extras (PE, Art, Music) and think private schools do a better job at making learning fun. We have tons of friends with kids at Lafayette and I've heard mixed reviews. Some love it, others think it's only okay. I don't know anyone who doesn't love our private. I guess if they didn't love it, they would leave.