Anonymous
Post 07/02/2012 22:15     Subject: my 11 year old asked what S&M is today

I think it's great your child is comfortable enough to ask! Way to go Mom!
Anonymous
Post 07/02/2012 21:31     Subject: Re:my 11 year old asked what S&M is today

Anonymous wrote:My child asked me if it was physically impossible for a boy to lick his own penis.

He heard it on the school bus.


Haven't you heard the old joke: "Why do dogs lick their balls? Because they can." The joke is ancient, but leads directly to the question above.
Anonymous
Post 07/02/2012 21:29     Subject: Re:my 11 year old asked what S&M is today

My child asked me if it was physically impossible for a boy to lick his own penis.

He heard it on the school bus.
Anonymous
Post 07/02/2012 20:39     Subject: Re:my 11 year old asked what S&M is today

My 10 year old once asked me if I was sad I didn't have a vagina (I'm her mom, so in fact I do). After telling her I do indeed have a vagina I found out that she thought because I had her and her younger siblings (just had our youngest dc) via c section that ment I was vagina-less. "sorry mom I figured that's why they cut your stomach open because you had no baby hole next to your pee hole".
Anonymous
Post 07/02/2012 20:30     Subject: my 11 year old asked what S&M is today

Where do you think your child picked up this term? TV? Computer? Other kids?
Anonymous
Post 07/02/2012 20:28     Subject: Re:my 11 year old asked what S&M is today

Anonymous wrote:My 12 yr old asked me what a "strap-on" is.
That was fun to explain. Apparently overheard that one at school.....WTF?


Wow, that's awkward!
Anonymous
Post 07/02/2012 19:55     Subject: Re:my 11 year old asked what S&M is today

OP, it is daunting but I think it is best to try to answer as honestly as you can, and NOT say I'll tell you when you are older.

The more matter of fact you can be the better and you keep the lines of communication open with your child. You want your child to feel he can ask you anything -- better to have information coming from you than from friends, in my opinion.
Anonymous
Post 07/02/2012 16:44     Subject: Re:my 11 year old asked what S&M is today

Spaghetti and meatballs!
Anonymous
Post 07/02/2012 16:05     Subject: Re:my 11 year old asked what S&M is today

My 12 yr old asked me what a "strap-on" is.
That was fun to explain. Apparently overheard that one at school.....WTF?
Anonymous
Post 07/02/2012 16:05     Subject: my 11 year old asked what S&M is today

Anonymous wrote:what are you talking abuot?
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sadomasochism

Google is your friend.
Anonymous
Post 07/02/2012 16:02     Subject: my 11 year old asked what S&M is today

Or just open that cabinet, and show her some examples.
Anonymous
Post 07/02/2012 15:57     Subject: my 11 year old asked what S&M is today

Or just say "Social Media" : )
Anonymous
Post 07/02/2012 15:56     Subject: my 11 year old asked what S&M is today

So either tell him, or just say "It's a grownup thing; I'll tell you when you're older."
Anonymous
Post 07/02/2012 15:53     Subject: my 11 year old asked what S&M is today

what are you talking abuot?
Anonymous
Post 07/02/2012 15:31     Subject: my 11 year old asked what S&M is today

so much for a relaxing day of monopoly with the kids....