Anonymous
07/02/2012 18:05
Subject: Special Needs School or Pubic with 1:1 Aide
a BIP might get you one but my aspies at our school gets aid when they go in mainstream class not when self contained.FCPS
Anonymous
07/02/2012 15:57
Subject: Special Needs School or Pubic with 1:1 Aide
Anonymous wrote:OP- right the aide would only help with behavior, not learning. just figured that out.
A 1/1 aide helps with issues like toileting, seizures, mobility issues (child can't walk without falling), eating and feeding (child can't self-feed), movement in the classroom. A 1/1 aide really can't help your child socialize, can't make your child behave, can't break the social ice for your child, can't stop your child from "wrecking" the classroom, and can't be your child's private tutor.
Anonymous
07/02/2012 15:53
Subject: Special Needs School or Pubic with 1:1 Aide
oops-meant OP Here in previous post
Anonymous
07/02/2012 15:52
Subject: Special Needs School or Pubic with 1:1 Aide
OP- right the aide would only help with behavior, not learning. just figured that out.
Anonymous
07/02/2012 15:44
Subject: Re:Special Needs School or Pubic with 1:1 Aide
maddux?
Anonymous
07/02/2012 15:42
Subject: Re:Special Needs School or Pubic with 1:1 Aide
Anonymous wrote:OP here again. thanks for the candid feedback about 1:1 aide, I appreciate it. Wow, that's really an eye opener that the !:! can end up being more hurtful than helpful. And then also, nearly impossible to get.
His needs are social; understanding reciprocity and being more flexible, as well as academic; he has interests I can't keep up with; my kitchen is a perpetual experiment zone and I'm running out of energy. Our biggest concern/challenge is that it takes him months to get used to a new school, and we need a place where they'll hang in there with him and teach him out of some of his avoidance behavior and get him relaxed enough to learn.
How would/could a 1-1 aide help with this?
Anonymous
07/02/2012 15:27
Subject: Re:Special Needs School or Pubic with 1:1 Aide
OP here again. thanks for the candid feedback about 1:1 aide, I appreciate it. Wow, that's really an eye opener that the !:! can end up being more hurtful than helpful. And then also, nearly impossible to get.
His needs are social; understanding reciprocity and being more flexible, as well as academic; he has interests I can't keep up with; my kitchen is a perpetual experiment zone and I'm running out of energy. Our biggest concern/challenge is that it takes him months to get used to a new school, and we need a place where they'll hang in there with him and teach him out of some of his avoidance behavior and get him relaxed enough to learn.
His needs are social; understanding reciprocity and being more flexible, as well as academic; he has interests I can't keep up with; my kitchen is a perpetual experiment zone and I'm running out of energy. Our biggest concern/challenge is that it takes him months to get used to a new school, and we need a place where they'll hang in there with him and teach him out of some of his avoidance behavior and get him relaxed enough to learn.
Anonymous
07/02/2012 15:16
Subject: Re:Special Needs School or Pubic with 1:1 Aide
be aware, too, that there are many, many downsides to 1:1 aides. there is a growing body of research that says ultimately more harmful than helpful.
Anonymous
07/02/2012 15:16
Subject: Re:Special Needs School or Pubic with 1:1 Aide
DC is our system. I'm skeptical. I have the energy and time to fight for him, but we can also afford a number of years of private, just barely. I guess I'm wondering if anyone out there has had the experience of both private and public with a child like mine, and if there is some kind of benefit from being mainstreamed, or included, that I'm not considering.
Anonymous
07/02/2012 14:37
Subject: Re:Special Needs School or Pubic with 1:1 Aide
My thought would be you should go through the IEP process to see what you can get. My child with HFA gets 10 hours a week of in class services plus 1 hour a week of Speech. We supplement with private OT and a social skills group. Working out great here.
Anonymous
07/02/2012 14:00
Subject: Re:Special Needs School or Pubic with 1:1 Aide
Anonymous wrote:I'm not trying to be hurtful, but the chances of your being able to get your child either of these options is quite small. A one-to-one full-time aide for a child without a physical disability is just not going to happen. And a child without an actual diagnosis of HFA is not going to be accepted to Auburn.
My advice is to step up services and get an IEP. Can you tell us a bit more about what your child needs?
Agree with the pp about the one-to-one aide. Do not agree about Auburn. There are kids there with other diagnoses. They definitely take non-HFA kids with social communication issues. Op, I would also look at Diener and McLean. Diener may not be challenging enough academically for your dc but they definitely work on the social piece. McLean does not work on the social piece but it will have a small class.
Anonymous
07/02/2012 13:52
Subject: Special Needs School or Pubic with 1:1 Aide
Our rising K DS who does have an AS DX was turned down for an 1 on 1 aide at his public immersion language charter in DC. He actually did well and improved dramatically with only his IEP so we were ultimately happy with the decision. I was told it is very difficult to get a dedicated aide for Aspies.
Anonymous
07/02/2012 13:48
Subject: Re:Special Needs School or Pubic with 1:1 Aide
I'm not trying to be hurtful, but the chances of your being able to get your child either of these options is quite small. A one-to-one full-time aide for a child without a physical disability is just not going to happen. And a child without an actual diagnosis of HFA is not going to be accepted to Auburn.
My advice is to step up services and get an IEP. Can you tell us a bit more about what your child needs?
My advice is to step up services and get an IEP. Can you tell us a bit more about what your child needs?
Anonymous
07/02/2012 13:35
Subject: Special Needs School or Pubic with 1:1 Aide
A lot depends on your finances and your time and ability to fight the school system. Also what school system do you live in?
My choice for my two kids was a private school. While expensive for us it has been worth every penny. I started my kids in a private school focused on kids with learning differences in pre-first and first and they are now going into tenth and eighth grades and I believe that it is the best value for those $s.
My choice for my two kids was a private school. While expensive for us it has been worth every penny. I started my kids in a private school focused on kids with learning differences in pre-first and first and they are now going into tenth and eighth grades and I believe that it is the best value for those $s.
Anonymous
07/02/2012 12:53
Subject: Special Needs School or Pubic with 1:1 Aide
Hi All,
DC has been scored 3 points shy of Asperger's, or possible Social Communication Disorder. My question is this: would he be better off in a mainstream with a 1:1 aide (if we can get that), or should we put him in a special needs school (like Auburn) straight away. He's entering K this fall. Its apparent to his father and me that he needs a lot more help than what he's been getting the past couple of years- OT 1x week, SLP 2x week, and that he needs more intensive help.
Any and all input would be most appreciated.
DC has been scored 3 points shy of Asperger's, or possible Social Communication Disorder. My question is this: would he be better off in a mainstream with a 1:1 aide (if we can get that), or should we put him in a special needs school (like Auburn) straight away. He's entering K this fall. Its apparent to his father and me that he needs a lot more help than what he's been getting the past couple of years- OT 1x week, SLP 2x week, and that he needs more intensive help.
Any and all input would be most appreciated.