I put this here instead of exercise and health in the hope that more people would see it
I realize that part of my problem in not exercising is that my exercise shorts all bunch up uncomfortably (and stupidly-looking) in my crotch while I run bc they're too small for me now

and that in turn makes my thighs chafe together
where can i get exercise clothes if i'm more than just 10-15 lbs overweight?
would it look too weird to wear cotton spandex leggings (the kind that only come to the knee) with a long shirt, or does that automatically look middle-aged, frumpy, and dumb ? which, I am, obviously, trying to avoid, hence the working out
you see it's a constant cycle
thanks for suggestions. . .