I personally hate hate hate the Ergo. I don't know why, but it just feels miserable on me. I have a bjorn active which I like and I have a beco, but I don't remember which model. There's two, and one allows forward facing and the other doesn't. I have the one that doesn't, but for my 1 yr old, I've put him forward facing anyway...sort of standing, but I was hanging on to him, and it was Ok. It pacified his need to see something other than my chest. It wouldn't be a good long term solution though.