Anonymous wrote:Hmmm, OP here, he said a few years ago when I Brought this up that he felt "no emotional connection" to me. He did not initiate again int he years following, except maybe once a year. Yes there are problems in the maririage and agree that this could indicate huge problems.
OP - what's going on with you? Years of no sex, husband tells you he has no emotional connection to you, is apparently unwilling to work on the relationship. Is there ANY benefit you are getting from this marriage? Does he know this is a huge problem?