Anonymous
05/21/2012 21:44
Subject: Did you "just know" within a few weeks of meeting someone you'd marry them?
Yes. Happily married for ten, together for thirteen.
Anonymous
05/21/2012 21:42
Subject: Re:Did you "just know" within a few weeks of meeting someone you'd marry them?
Yep- met end of January, engaged in June. Long engagement because church was booked. Working on nine years now with two kids. I'm female. Never felt that way before, and glad because then I wouldn't be married to my best guy today!
Anonymous
05/21/2012 21:29
Subject: Re:Did you "just know" within a few weeks of meeting someone you'd marry them?
Yes, on our second date, I knew. Female. Never felt that way about a guy before. Still married, 16 years.
Anonymous
05/21/2012 21:20
Subject: Did you "just know" within a few weeks of meeting someone you'd marry them?
Not me, but my ex did. I think I was infatuation but thought it was love.
Engaged 4 Months after first date.
Married little over a year after first date.
Divorced 12 years later.
Engaged 4 Months after first date.
Married little over a year after first date.
Divorced 12 years later.
Anonymous
05/21/2012 21:18
Subject: Re:Did you "just know" within a few weeks of meeting someone you'd marry them?
Basically. Maybe not I would marry him but definitely very strong feelings. Met in mid 20s. We got serious real fast.
We had a very intense first few years. I think our passion stage lasted a long, long time.
Been together 12 years, married 8, two kids, a few curveballs, going through major, major rough patch right now. But we are working on it.
We had a very intense first few years. I think our passion stage lasted a long, long time.
Been together 12 years, married 8, two kids, a few curveballs, going through major, major rough patch right now. But we are working on it.
Anonymous
05/21/2012 21:06
Subject: Did you "just know" within a few weeks of meeting someone you'd marry them?
Yes. Married for 7 years also. I knew and so did my DH.
Anonymous
05/21/2012 21:05
Subject: Did you "just know" within a few weeks of meeting someone you'd marry them?
Nope. It took about a year and a bunch of events where we saw each other before I gave her a second look. She took even longer to warm up to me.
We started dating after 2 years and married after five. Been married about 13 years so far.
We started dating after 2 years and married after five. Been married about 13 years so far.
Anonymous
05/21/2012 21:04
Subject: Did you "just know" within a few weeks of meeting someone you'd marry them?
Yes. Just felt easy - past relationships were always stressful. Married 4.5 years, together 9.5
Anonymous
05/21/2012 20:55
Subject: Re:Did you "just know" within a few weeks of meeting someone you'd marry them?
Yep, married 20 years.
Anonymous
05/21/2012 20:54
Subject: Re:Did you "just know" within a few weeks of meeting someone you'd marry them?
Yes. We both knew pretty quickly. No, never felt that way before. We will celebrate our 15th anniversary next week.
Anonymous
05/21/2012 20:53
Subject: Re:Did you "just know" within a few weeks of meeting someone you'd marry them?
yes, I knew it was substantively different by the second date. Married 1.5. years later, been married 3 years. Hope we stay married--going through a rough patch now.
Anonymous
05/21/2012 20:41
Subject: Did you "just know" within a few weeks of meeting someone you'd marry them?
Yep. Married a little over a year after our first date. Engaged about 4 months after first date.
Anonymous
05/21/2012 20:39
Subject: Did you "just know" within a few weeks of meeting someone you'd marry them?
We both had a sense we had found "the one" within the first few weeks. We got married 9 months later. Have been married 10 years. Neither of us are impulsive by nature. Neither of us felt that with anyone else.
Anonymous
05/21/2012 20:35
Subject: Did you "just know" within a few weeks of meeting someone you'd marry them?
Yes, married 7 years.
No, never felt it before. My other LTRs had something substantively wrong with them, but I never wanted to admit it. I kept trying to change them. This guy, I didnt have to change.
Female.
No, never felt it before. My other LTRs had something substantively wrong with them, but I never wanted to admit it. I kept trying to change them. This guy, I didnt have to change.
Female.
Anonymous
05/21/2012 20:32
Subject: Did you "just know" within a few weeks of meeting someone you'd marry them?
If so, are you still married, how long married, male or female? Had you ever felt that before with anyone else (ie, false alert?)