Anonymous wrote:If you haven't observed or experienced any neglect, harm, or unhappiness....what are you complaining about? I think just the fact that they DON'T max out should make you happy. Not many programs will sacrifice profit potential to keep their ratios down like that. I care for children and do exactly that, take less kids to keep everyone happy. I see that as a true sign of concern for the overall well-being and happiness of the children. We are in a home, not a center but we go to the bathroom...get food, and cleaning supplies from the kitchen area.
Even with all the required caregivers in the room if the children are biters, fighters, climbers, throwers etc.stuff is going to happen. If nothing bad is happening-you are very lucky to have a great group of playmates for your child. Nanny-shares have way less accountability than a center and are less reliable-nanny gets sick, car breaks down, other family quits sticking you with more of a bill. If the place was understaffed regularly like only two all day-that would be cause for concern. As is...this sounds nit picky. But hey, rules are rules and the children should be properly supervised. I'm not going to argue with that.
Not PP but it sounds like she is paying a lot for daycare and she has a right to expect more than no neglect, harm, or unhappiness. I've been in situations with smaller and larger ratios and the big difference is that with smaller ratios your child gets more direct interaction and specialized care. For example, I really love being able to hear about my child's day from someone who actually had enough time to pay attention to my child and notice what he did, what funny things happened what he liked, disliked, what new words/skills he showed, how he is developing, etc. With higher ratios that disappears.