Anonymous
Post 04/10/2012 23:27     Subject: Would your spouse have married you if you were any other race?
Anonymous wrote:How can you have the same basic looks and be a different race? We are an interracial couple and my answer is no - I'm attracted to my dh which is largely due to his race color/features etc


Are you serious?

Anonymous
Post 04/10/2012 23:20     Subject: Would your spouse have married you if you were any other race?
How can you have the same basic looks and be a different race? We are an interracial couple and my answer is no - I'm attracted to my dh which is largely due to his race color/features etc
Anonymous
Post 04/10/2012 23:10     Subject: Would your spouse have married you if you were any other race?
The person that DH is now would marry someone of any race. We married at 22 - probably not then.
Anonymous
Post 04/10/2012 23:05     Subject: Re:Would your spouse have married you if you were any other race?
My DH mention something to the effect that if I had been from a lower class than I was, that would have posed a problem, but race didn't factor into it,
Anonymous
Post 04/10/2012 22:44     Subject: Would your spouse have married you if you were any other race?
I don't think so. He said he fell for me just because I'm X
Anonymous
Post 04/10/2012 22:44     Subject: Would your spouse have married you if you were any other race?
Anonymous wrote:no


one honest person.
Anonymous
Post 04/10/2012 22:33     Subject: Would your spouse have married you if you were any other race?
no
Anonymous
Post 04/10/2012 22:21     Subject: Would your spouse have married you if you were any other race?
You mean for example if I were Asian, would he have married me?
Anonymous
Post 04/10/2012 22:20     Subject: Re:Would your spouse have married you if you were any other race?
Likely. DW is Caucasian. Her first husband was Caucasian. I am Asian. She is pretty race blind in virtually all aspects of her life.
Anonymous
Post 04/10/2012 22:20     Subject: Re:Would your spouse have married you if you were any other race?
Weird question. Since I'm in an interracial marriage and DH dated in his race before marrying me, yes I think he would have married me no matter what.
Anonymous
Post 04/10/2012 22:14     Subject: Re:Would your spouse have married you if you were any other race?
Yes. Strange question.
Anonymous
Post 04/10/2012 22:12     Subject: Would your spouse have married you if you were any other race?
Anonymous wrote:What did he say?


Suffice it to say that it was an implication that "no way in ---- would I have ever married a -----".
Anonymous
Post 04/10/2012 22:09     Subject: Re:Would your spouse have married you if you were any other race?
this is possibly the strangest question I've ever read here. How can someone even ponder such a thing?
Anonymous
Post 04/10/2012 22:05     Subject: Would your spouse have married you if you were any other race?
What did he say?
Anonymous
Post 04/10/2012 22:01     Subject: Would your spouse have married you if you were any other race?
If not, does that concern you?
I am talking same personality, same basic "looks", same education, but another race.

Friend's husband blurted out something that bothered her a lot. I am curious if that would have affected others in the same way.