Well, in MD on the significantly less than 30K end, Friends Community. On the close to 30K end, Sandy Spring Friends or Norwood. Grace Episcopal only runs through 5th but people speak fondly of it. It's about 20K a year I think. There are several in the 20ish range that you can find people saying good things about on DCUM. Much under 20K there are far fewer options that are not parochial - there are some Montessori options if you are interested in Montessori, but many of those end before 8th grade. Mater Amoris or Christian Family come to mind offhand as Montessoris that are well below 20K that I know happy families at.
You said no parochial school, do you want to eliminate all schools with religious affiliation? just Catholic schools? keep Catholic independents and just toss out parish schools? (parochial would mean the latter, but it seems like sometimes people mean more than parochial when they say parochial)