Anonymous wrote:I dont like the comment someone made about being skinny, pretty and what not....I looked at the site and I see a good mix of people.

That was me, and that's been my experience on match.
I didn't say there wasn't a mix. I meant that is what the men prefer.
Nearly every guy on there that I've viewed has listed "slim/slender" or "athletic/toned" as their preferred body type. Even the men that are easily over 300 pounds. SOME of them will list "average" as a preferred type as well, but the majority want the other types. Nearly fell off my chair when one guy I viewed recently said in his profile that he prefers curvy women and that women should be proud of their curves. He is the minority.

I dont like the comment someone made about being skinny, pretty and what not....I looked at the site and I see a good mix of people.

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Anonymous wrote:If you're very Christian, eharmony might work for you.

I'm amused because my best friend who is Jewish found his wife on eharmony. They've been married for 4 years now.

As the original eharmony poster, I stand corrected. I got the impression when I looked at the site that it was aimed mostly at christians & catholics.
Though I stand by my assessment of match.

My dad, who is 68, met his girlfriend on Match.com. She's cool. I think you have to be selective and be open to setting up many first dates.

Anonymous wrote:If you're very Christian, eharmony might work for you.

I'm amused because my best friend who is Jewish found his wife on eharmony. They've been married for 4 years now.

another vote for OK Cupid - you answer a bunch of questions (some of them very interesting) and it sends you matches, and also allows you to browse. I actually thought the matches it sent me made a lot of sense, personality-wise. I didn't find a ton of them very attractive and some of them lived WAY too far away, but the personality-matching algorithm was spot-on. Most of the guys contacting me seem very nice and normal. I've met one guy through the site (i don't have much time for dating) and he was nice. A friend of mine is now living with the guy she met through the site - he's great. Try it!

OK Cupid

EHarmony.... You don't have to be very Christian! Good luck. Also try signing up for a class or joining a meetup group.

Only go on match if you're young (20's-mid-30's), thin or athletic, and at least mildy attractive. Otherwise you're wasting your time.

If you're very Christian, eharmony might work for you.

If you want to go free, try plenty o fish or ok Cupid. But they're more for hook ups than relationships.

Anonymous wrote:18:22, if she is on that many dating sites... does that mean she is also just looking for sex?

Of course not. If A woman is on many dating sites she is looking at many options for love. If a man is doing it then he just wants sex. Didn't you get your copy of the double standard guidebook

18:22, if she is on that many dating sites... does that mean she is also just looking for sex?

I'm embarrassed to sign up bc I know so many people on it! Stupid I know

I know 4 couples who met on Match.

And I have one friend who is on ALL of them -- she can instantly identify the guys who are just looking for sex, because they're on all of them, too.

I've been married for 6 years to a guy I met on match.com. Best thing that ever happened to me.

What are some of the best dating websites?