OP here. Seems there's no good outcome to a gold band on ANY finger! Gay? Out. Engaged? Out. Widowed and still devoted enough to wear the symbol? Not ready. Married European? Out. OCD lefty? Out LOL!!
Sigh... so with the J Crew sweater vest and plaid shirt, perfectly tailored jeans, and pebbled leather loafers... would you say gay then? Hate to dabble in stereotyping, and sorry but he was smokin' hot!