Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:But....can you still afford the payment? That's the question. You still have to live somewhere. If you stay long enough, you will pay the fucker off. So I don't buy the "OMG, I will never have any equity EVER!" argument, ESPECIALLY not in Northern Virginia. People are constantly like "OMG, my house lost 50K!" Meanwhile, 50K is less than 10% of their house value.
Since the market has crashed and the economy is in the Johnny Crapper, its not hard to understand that between 2006 and now, everything being the same (which it isn't) people on average are making less income. Thus if they could barely afford their house they can easily tip into not affording the house. From 2006 to 2009 home prices in NOVA have decreased by more than 50K (think 100-150K) AND in that same time frame property taxes have increased, adding more to that bottom line.
IF you lose your job and need to leave you either risk a short sale on your record, cough up 100K immediately, or rent out the house. However, the rent price = to your mortgage no one will pay to rent your house, so you'd have to rent for less than the mortgage and still pick up the tab for whatever is left AND pay for any repairs. Does that make sense? It's a HUGE money hole.
So now the house is mortgaged at 3.5 times the original amount of the purchase price. After ex walked out he left me hanging with more cc debt and a home equity loan he refused to pay anything on (he figured it was tied to the house an he didnt have the house so not his debt, even though it was most of HIS cc and HIS truck in the deal). When I refi'd to get the house out of his name, we had to roll everything in to the new mortgage, hence the reason why wI am at this point. It sucks because we need to sell the house so we can move and the house isnt going to sell for what we owe, hence freaking out about it. 
Anonymous wrote:But....can you still afford the payment? That's the question. You still have to live somewhere. If you stay long enough, you will pay the fucker off. So I don't buy the "OMG, I will never have any equity EVER!" argument, ESPECIALLY not in Northern Virginia. People are constantly like "OMG, my house lost 50K!" Meanwhile, 50K is less than 10% of their house value.
Anonymous wrote:But....can you still afford the payment? That's the question. You still have to live somewhere. If you stay long enough, you will pay the fucker off. So I don't buy the "OMG, I will never have any equity EVER!" argument, ESPECIALLY not in Northern Virginia. People are constantly like "OMG, my house lost 50K!" Meanwhile, 50K is less than 10% of their house value.