Okay, I made the thread a "sticky".

I found it!

http://www.dcurbanmom.com/jforum/posts/list/15/26481.page

Someone quoted it and so it lists twice which is unnecessary, so maybe the quote could be edited out. I doubt it is copy righted b/c it's from mcneeds yahoo group.

Also, I think there may have been a glitch with the search b/c when I searched support group the other day, it came back with 0 hits, and when I did it just now there was 166. It just seems to be a question asked over and over.

If it really was copy and pasted from someplace else, it might be a copyright violation. But, if someone can find the message and post a link here, I'll take a look. I can look myself a little later, but since I have never seen it, I might have a harder time finding it.

There was a post with a long list of support groups from va, md, and dc. I think the op copied and pasted from mcneeds. I can't seem to find it by searching.

I'm wondering if you could make the list a sticky like the compilation of pediatric dentists are in the health forum. Thanks for your consideration.