Love RCF -- commute into city varies from 15 minutes to 45 (time of day, etc.,.). Several SAHM's (I'm not one of them so can't speak to that -- on a leave day today which is why I can write). DC doesn't attend the local school, and we have heard that while it is perfectly fine, you have to do lots of supplementation with activities, etc., but I suspect that is the case for any situation.
Good luck! Values in the neighborhood seem to have held steady, by the way, although a couple of homes are taking an awfully, awfully long time to move. . . .