OP, I'm the same way. I just don't like the taste of it. I did manage to find some drinks that I do like, but they are all on the "girlie" side, and don't exactly say sophiscticated, so most of the time I just nurse a glass of wine. Some of the drinks I do like are sour apple martinis, frozen margaritas, daquiris, whiskey sours and anyting with lemon (I had a lemon-basil concoction a while ago that was really delicious). If it's too strong, I don't like it. You don't HAVE to drink, but I do get that sometimes it's nice to help you relax in a social situation - I am an introvert too
