Anonymous
Post 12/14/2011 09:06     Subject: Re:If you were widowed now, would you ever remarry?

Never. Once is enough.
Anonymous
Post 12/13/2011 22:11     Subject: If you were widowed now, would you ever remarry?

Anonymous wrote:Why are you worried about this? I have good reason to worry about this, and it isn't really something for idle speculation.

Yes, I would. I know what good is, and I would want it again.

Unfortunately, my friend had it good w/ #1, and #2 turned out to be someone that did not even come close. She was too much in love to ever feel that way again.
Anonymous
Post 12/13/2011 21:44     Subject: If you were widowed now, would you ever remarry?

I'm 21:22 and while my post was harsh I love my H, he's a great dad, it would be a huge loss/void. But I would be OK in the long run as would the kids and I can't imagine getting married to someone else.
Anonymous
Post 12/13/2011 21:35     Subject: If you were widowed now, would you ever remarry?

No, I am like a wolf - mate once and die.
Anonymous
Post 12/13/2011 21:35     Subject: Re:If you were widowed now, would you ever remarry?

I don't know... I am still young and want more children (only have one), but I am not sure I am cut for married life. Also, I have my daughter to consider - I would HATE for a stranger to try to parent her, discipline her, maybe spank her, or even sexually abuse her. Yes, I am fucked up... I know it!

Anonymous
Post 12/13/2011 21:31     Subject: If you were widowed now, would you ever remarry?

I can't imagine I would, altho as a child of single parents (they divorced in their 40s and neither remarried) I might consider it -- I would hate my children to worry about me and my happiness when they are adults as much as I worry about my parents!
Anonymous
Post 12/13/2011 21:31     Subject: Re:If you were widowed now, would you ever remarry?

I probably would. I'm not good at being alone and sad.
Anonymous
Post 12/13/2011 21:31     Subject: Re:If you were widowed now, would you ever remarry?

Dunno. It's a pretty high bar, in my case.
Anonymous
Post 12/13/2011 21:30     Subject: Re:If you were widowed now, would you ever remarry?

No way. Marriage is overrated and the last thing I'd want is another person to care for.
Anonymous
Post 12/13/2011 21:28     Subject: If you were widowed now, would you ever remarry?

Who knows? I wouldn't be in any hurry. Might wait till kids grow up and leave home.
Anonymous
Post 12/13/2011 21:26     Subject: If you were widowed now, would you ever remarry?

Why are you worried about this? I have good reason to worry about this, and it isn't really something for idle speculation.

Yes, I would. I know what good is, and I would want it again.
Anonymous
Post 12/13/2011 21:24     Subject: If you were widowed now, would you ever remarry?

Why are you worried about this?

I have good reason to wonder what I would do if widowed. Yes, I would marry and I hope that if I am widowed, I meet someone good enough to marry before too many years pass.
Anonymous
Post 12/13/2011 21:22     Subject: If you were widowed now, would you ever remarry?

No. I would have assets, my kids (don't want more), a house free and clear, etc. I may date but a husband? No way.
Anonymous
Post 12/13/2011 21:18     Subject: Re:If you were widowed now, would you ever remarry?

Yes, because I'm young and would like to have children someday.

Maybe I'd have a go at being lesbian.
Anonymous
Post 12/13/2011 21:16     Subject: If you were widowed now, would you ever remarry?

I would not, partly because of financial reasons.
And would have a very hard time getting used to someone else.