You know, it took a really long time, but after 10 months, mine are actually almost where they were before breastfeeding. After I weaned mine looked deflated-- saggy and... best word I can think of... "empty." I still think they are a little less perky, but I've definitely regained some volume which makes them look perkier. Not sure what advice to give about bras... but as for your breasts, don't give up hope.