Got the same sort of response at my neighborhood public last year when we were debating public vs. private. My take is that public is not a choice. You go where you are zoned to go. There is no going for a visit to see how your child likes the school. It's the free education, take it or leave it. And, they can get away with that attitude b/c it's public school (not that I agree with it, but it's definitely the vibe I got).