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Home Front always has paint color recs. You can just do a web search of a color and there's often a photo of a room that someone, somewhere has painted in that color.
Also, if you find a design blog you like, take a look at their blogroll or recommended links. A lot of times they link to other great design blogs.
Some sites to get you started:
Urban Grace Interiors
Jessica Helgerson
House of Turquoise check out her list of recommended blogs along the bottom right margin
Design Sponge sneak peeks (house tours)
Apartment Therapy house tours