Anonymous wrote:Welcome to DCUM and over thinking things. She isn't "mature" she is actually quite normal and is drawn to older children...like 99.99999% of all children. She probably isn't gifted, destined to be of greatness or "the love of your life" (you probably will have more). She may be quite mundane actually which is so nice in this culture.
Just go with it -- upon many fronts. Your child will thank you down the road.
Well, that was patronizing, and not really helpful... I don't want to get into an argument, am just looking for suggestions on schools. Other parents (including a developmental psychologist) have commented on their surprise at her age based on her speech and social skills, which are similar to the 2 1/2 year olds in a structured play group that she goes to. I don't see her as "destined to be of greatness," just want her to be in a setting where she will be happy, challenged, and not bored. I was "gifted" and very bored in school, and don't want the same for her.