Anonymous
Post 06/11/2026 18:37     Subject: When to persist and when to throw in the towel

Listen to your gut.
Anonymous
Post 06/10/2026 08:36     Subject: When to persist and when to throw in the towel

We are navigating a new world. Upskill, don’t worry about length of time so much, and anticipate more of a runway needed with any change.
Anonymous
Post 06/10/2026 08:16     Subject: When to persist and when to throw in the towel

i’m in the same boat. we just went through a reorganization and things are even more muddled. they’re actually hiring for a bunch of new roles on my team, but i applied and didn’t get a promotion. my new boss is a work friend, but it’s clear the org is prioritizing skills that only younger people have (and i’m only late 40s!). my plan is to find a new role outside the org, but biding my time until then
Anonymous
Post 06/10/2026 08:11     Subject: Re:When to persist and when to throw in the towel

If your gut is telling you something is off and you don't feel like it's a fit, you need to start looking for a new job. Ignore your gut at your own peril.
Anonymous
Post 06/10/2026 08:07     Subject: When to persist and when to throw in the towel

2 years is old news; do what’s best for you.
Anonymous
Post 06/09/2026 16:27     Subject: When to persist and when to throw in the towel

If you can get support through your boss, or around your boss, through a network or other channels. If none of that is possible it’s a calculation of your pay vs your mental health.
Anonymous
Post 06/09/2026 15:31     Subject: Re:When to persist and when to throw in the towel

How long have you been there? If over 2 years get out
Anonymous
Post 06/09/2026 14:53     Subject: When to persist and when to throw in the towel

In my experience, an employer who you believe is not investing proper resources has already given up on on you being a good fit. I'd cut your losses ASAP.
Anonymous
Post 06/09/2026 14:20     Subject: When to persist and when to throw in the towel

Leave if it is obvious you are being set up to fail.
Anonymous
Post 06/09/2026 09:43     Subject: Re:When to persist and when to throw in the towel

Are you the poster that texted your boss after hours?
Anonymous
Post 06/09/2026 09:41     Subject: When to persist and when to throw in the towel

Anonymous wrote:If you’re facing difficulty in your role due to role confusion, lack of support, and an unclear path to success, when is it worth persisting and when should you just leave?


When you have another job lined up. In the meantime, nod and play nice and focus on other opportunities in the same or different org/
Anonymous
Post 06/09/2026 09:38     Subject: When to persist and when to throw in the towel

Worth persisting if you can actually talk to someone to address these problems, and can receive coherent, concrete responses. If you can't do either, move on.
Anonymous
Post 06/09/2026 09:36     Subject: When to persist and when to throw in the towel

If you’re facing difficulty in your role due to role confusion, lack of support, and an unclear path to success, when is it worth persisting and when should you just leave?