Hi OP, you come across as very polite and nice. I think that you’ll like Oakcrest as it seems to attract similar people. I have boys, but a friend and her sister are both graduates. They have positive memories, attended great colleges, and now have beautiful families.
I like their advising model where a faculty member takes time to build a relationship with a student and guide them. The school is at a size where students can try out a variety of activities that might not be accessible at a larger school.
The values are traditional. In that way it’s unique to most schools in the area. It’s decidedly Catholic. I have a feeling that if you visit, you’ll get a sense right away as to whether or not Oakcrest would be a good fit. GL!