Anonymous wrote:Ask questions about how they're doing, then listen. Don't immediately make it about you.
This. Just pay attention to what they say and follow up on things. They mention they are trying a new activity? Dealing with something at work? Excited to try out a new recipe? Follow up with them later about how it went/is going. Showing that you pay attention, remember details, and show genuine interest in someone is a great way of showing you care.