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Anonymous wrote:My DH gave me a $500 gift card to my favorite garden center. Let’s just say that he had a very happy Mother’s Day.

I would love that! $500 would go really far at a garden center, and I always feel guilty spending money there because it is the definition of stuff we do not need.

I would HATE this.

Can’t go wrong with a gift card to a spa or massage place!

Anonymous wrote:A day spa gift certificate, fancy underwear, gift card to Anthropologie, a weekend away with her best friend or a kid free weekend.

A gift certificate to an old-lady clothing store? If it's Anthro it might as well be Chico's.

Anonymous wrote:Something from Tiffany? Massage? Vineyard outing with girlfriends? Those are things I would enjoy.

I wouldn't want any of those things.

I don't mean to make it about me, but to point out to the OP that asking random people about a gift like this doesn't work. Especially from DH to DW.

Anonymous wrote:My DH gave me a $500 gift card to my favorite garden center. Let’s just say that he had a very happy Mother’s Day.

I would love that! $500 would go really far at a garden center, and I always feel guilty spending money there because it is the definition of stuff we do not need.

My DH gave me a $500 gift card to my favorite garden center. Let’s just say that he had a very happy Mother’s Day.

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Anonymous wrote:fancy underwear

Do women actually want this or is this just what men want to give women?

Depends. If spouse is fit and sex life is great, then absolutely yes. If otherwise, then no.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:fancy underwear

Do women actually want this or is this just what men want to give women?

Some do. It depends.

No one wants a gift that reminds them of something they aren’t meeting your standards on. For example, a woman who knows she isn’t a great cook doesn’t want a cookbook. She would take it as a hint that her culinary skills need improvement. But a woman who loves to cook would really appreciate a cookbook that’s in her taste.

Same goes for fancy underwear . If she likes sex and likes fancy underwear, she will like it. If she doesn’t, then she will feel guilty and insulted at best.

Sir, we do not know your wife. What does she like? How does she spend her time when she has a day off? What are her hobbies and interests? Women are not a monolith.

Tell us a few things about her so we can provide better ideas.

Anonymous wrote:fancy underwear

Do women actually want this or is this just what men want to give women?

I always appreciate when someone asks me. I don't want my preferences crowdsourced.

A day spa gift certificate, fancy underwear, gift card to Anthropologie, a weekend away with her best friend or a kid free weekend.

Something from Tiffany? Massage? Vineyard outing with girlfriends? Those are things I would enjoy.

I am seeking some help for gift ideas for my wife. I really want to get something nice for her. Budget is under $500.

Can some Moms please help me? I really need something to show my appreciation.