Anonymous
04/17/2026 11:37
Subject: Would this bother you?
Anonymous wrote:Was he with a guy or a gal?
Yes, was he on a date? What was observable to you? Are you absolutely sure it was him?
While I don't think anyone owes many specifics that early on, I would be irked by the lie and would cancel and disconnect. Bullet dodged.
Anonymous
04/17/2026 11:35
Subject: Would this bother you?
It would not bother me at all
Anonymous
04/17/2026 11:33
Subject: Would this bother you?
I would not go on the date. He's probably married and his wife is out of town in two weeks.
Anonymous
04/17/2026 07:15
Subject: Would this bother you?
Anonymous wrote:You sure it was them?
+1
You could tell from a picture?
Do you live in a small town?
Anonymous
04/17/2026 07:11
Subject: Would this bother you?
A total stranger doesn't give you all the details? How odd and offensive. I am sure you gave him an hour-by-hour forecast of your whereabouts for the following two weeks.
Did you guys connect online on a Tuesday and you saw him on Wednesday or Thursday? Maybe he was leaving Friday or Saturday morning.
There's all sorts of things. You have no idea.
Did you guys connect online on a Tuesday and you saw him on Wednesday or Thursday? Maybe he was leaving Friday or Saturday morning.
There's all sorts of things. You have no idea.
Anonymous
04/17/2026 05:56
Subject: Would this bother you?
You sure it was them?
Anonymous
04/17/2026 04:57
Subject: Would this bother you?
Red Flag đźš©
That person is a liar. Move on
Anonymous
04/17/2026 01:11
Subject: Re:Would this bother you?
It would bother me in an irrational way - - but overall I would just be glad that I dodged a huge, lying bullet!
Anonymous
04/17/2026 00:00
Subject: Would this bother you?
You just met them o line and they didn’t want to or couldn’t see you for two weeks so gave you some lame excuse.
Oh well.
Oh well.
Anonymous
04/16/2026 23:05
Subject: Would this bother you?
Was he with a guy or a gal?
Anonymous
04/16/2026 23:04
Subject: Would this bother you?
Anonymous wrote:I connected with someone on a dating app. We had a fantastic phone convo and agreed to go on a date in 2 weeks. They told me they were out of town visiting a friend until then.
Well, I just went out for drinks alone and they were there! They didn’t notice me.
It doesn't matter if it bothers you. We have to remember, our judgements about people really don't matter in the long run. But, if you feel that his behavior is disqualifying for having a relationship with you, so be it.
Anonymous
04/16/2026 23:04
Subject: Would this bother you?
Tell him you saw his twin bro at the bar!
Anonymous
04/16/2026 23:00
Subject: Would this bother you?
Yes
Anonymous
04/16/2026 22:54
Subject: Would this bother you?
Oof, yeah. I'd assume they're a schmoozer/womanizer at best, flat out manipulative liar at worst. Do not pass go.
Anonymous
04/16/2026 22:48
Subject: Would this bother you?
I connected with someone on a dating app. We had a fantastic phone convo and agreed to go on a date in 2 weeks. They told me they were out of town visiting a friend until then.
Well, I just went out for drinks alone and they were there! They didn’t notice me.
Well, I just went out for drinks alone and they were there! They didn’t notice me.