Anonymous
Post 04/07/2026 21:42     Subject: Is dating a bad idea?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Op, you being overweight is the likely cause of sexless marriage. Doesn’t excuse your ignorance husband’s behavior but you are likely part of the problem


The OP did not say anything about being overweight. Even if she is, it's not an excuse to cheat on your spouse nor does it make her part of the problem. Wtf is wrong with you.


Plus no one is overweight anymore.
Anonymous
Post 04/07/2026 21:39     Subject: Is dating a bad idea?
Anonymous wrote:Op, you being overweight is the likely cause of sexless marriage. Doesn’t excuse your ignorance husband’s behavior but you are likely part of the problem


The OP did not say anything about being overweight. Even if she is, it's not an excuse to cheat on your spouse nor does it make her part of the problem. Wtf is wrong with you.
Anonymous
Post 04/07/2026 12:02     Subject: Is dating a bad idea?
Anonymous wrote:No sex for last 7 years as STBX backed out, discovered affair a few months ago-gave him couple chances to fix it, now with an attorney working on separation. He has AP but I feel the need to have something casual now. Should I wait until the whole process goes through or go over OLD? It’s very lonely where I am. Also, I am in my early 50s. No intent of getting into a serious relation yet..


Where do you live?

If in Virginia, it could affect alimony if you have a huge income discrepancy. Technically, it would be adultery, which is a crime in Virginia.
Anonymous
Post 04/07/2026 12:02     Subject: Is dating a bad idea?
^ “ignorance” was a typo
Anonymous
Post 04/07/2026 12:00     Subject: Is dating a bad idea?
Op, you being overweight is the likely cause of sexless marriage. Doesn’t excuse your ignorance husband’s behavior but you are likely part of the problem
Anonymous
Post 04/06/2026 00:48     Subject: Is dating a bad idea?
are you legally separated? wait till you have an official separation agreement
Anonymous
Post 04/06/2026 00:09     Subject: Is dating a bad idea?
Do you. Have fun!
Anonymous
Post 04/06/2026 00:00     Subject: Is dating a bad idea?
Yes, definitely. Be happy!
Anonymous
Post 04/05/2026 23:30     Subject: Is dating a bad idea?
Go out and have fun. Be safe.
Anonymous
Post 04/05/2026 23:13     Subject: Is dating a bad idea?
Don’t postpone living your best life. You’re still young and vital and there’s no reason to be lonely.
Anonymous
Post 04/05/2026 22:48     Subject: Is dating a bad idea?
No sex for last 7 years as STBX backed out, discovered affair a few months ago-gave him couple chances to fix it, now with an attorney working on separation. He has AP but I feel the need to have something casual now. Should I wait until the whole process goes through or go over OLD? It’s very lonely where I am. Also, I am in my early 50s. No intent of getting into a serious relation yet..