Anonymous wrote:How does it affect you? Let it go. These kids probably wouldn’t be doing very well in school anyway.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Our district had this problem too. They started off the year pretty firm and parents literally went psycho that they had to bring in an actual doctors note when they called their kid in sick for more than 2 days in a row. It isn’t “equitable” bc some people can’t afford to go to the doctors, etc. Same with parents saying their kid needed mental health days off and it isn’t the schools business or they are taking a vacation and don’t need permission. Schools can’t win.
What does an elementary or middle school need a doctor's note for? Since grades don't matter until HS I doubt very many are faking to get more time to study for tests or turn in assignments.
Anonymous wrote:Sometimes when there's a serious systematic problem, the answer is simple and the people in charge just decided not to do what's necessary.
But 99 percent of the time, it's just a lot harder than it appears.
"Round these kids up and take them to school!!"
OK. Who does it? If the children refuse, are they going to physically force them to school? If so, how do you think that will go? If you think there should be consequences for parents, what should those consequences be? Jail? If not, maybe fines? What if they have no money. How do you distinguish between parents who are failing to get their kids to school because they aren't trying or because they can't? What if the parents have to leave before their children to get to work?
We all agree this is a huge problem and more needs to be done. But actually doing it is the hard part.
That's not to excuse DC. There are many similar school systems that are doing better, and DC can and must do better. But yelling "Round these kids up and take them to school!!" is meaningless.
Anonymous wrote:Our district had this problem too. They started off the year pretty firm and parents literally went psycho that they had to bring in an actual doctors note when they called their kid in sick for more than 2 days in a row. It isn’t “equitable” bc some people can’t afford to go to the doctors, etc. Same with parents saying their kid needed mental health days off and it isn’t the schools business or they are taking a vacation and don’t need permission. Schools can’t win.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Our district had this problem too. They started off the year pretty firm and parents literally went psycho that they had to bring in an actual doctors note when they called their kid in sick for more than 2 days in a row. It isn’t “equitable” bc some people can’t afford to go to the doctors, etc. Same with parents saying their kid needed mental health days off and it isn’t the schools business or they are taking a vacation and don’t need permission. Schools can’t win.
I am not one of those parents but it is completely unreasonable to ask for a doctor's note for being out sick for a few days. For most illnesses, it's not appropriate or necessary to go into a doctor's office. Doctors are busy and shouldn't be spending time writing school absence excuses for a few days. And frankly if a kid is sick with something contagious we want that kid to stay home! Did we learn nothing from covid?
Anonymous wrote:Our district had this problem too. They started off the year pretty firm and parents literally went psycho that they had to bring in an actual doctors note when they called their kid in sick for more than 2 days in a row. It isn’t “equitable” bc some people can’t afford to go to the doctors, etc. Same with parents saying their kid needed mental health days off and it isn’t the schools business or they are taking a vacation and don’t need permission. Schools can’t win.