Awww, congratulations OP! I wish you many years of happiness together!
Assume she isn't house trained at all (even if she is). It's a new place, new people, treat her like a puppy for at least a few days until you have a handle on it. Then if you find she's reliable you can back off.
If you've never had a dog before, I'd enroll in a basic obedience/clicker training class. A good one will teach you how dogs learn and how to train basic behaviors so that you have a skillset when you inevitably run into struggles down the road.
I'd also get pet insurance for the first year, before anything is a "pre-existing condition" so that if anything surprising pops up you are covered. You can cancel it after the first year if you find she is relatively healthy and not prone to eating socks
Do you intend her to sleep in the crate forever, or just while she's acclimating/house training? If the former, put the crate in the living room, but if you eventually imagine her loose in your room at night I would put the crate there for a few weeks and just deal with it. I removed my night stand and put a wooden cover of the top and the crate was my nightstand while puppy slept crated. Once he outgrew it, I reclaimed my regular furniture.