I read your previous post. Smart move.

My kids and any non relatives of any gender don’t mix. When kids are away, sure. So yeah I would not move anyone in unless I desperately needed the money.

While I did not read your previous post, I think you made the correct decision OP.

You sound like a very good ➕ responsible parent.

For those who read my last post, which I can't be bothered to find now, I took DCUMs advice and let my friend know that they should look for another place. My kids deserve their space and less change. Thanks for the advice.

(Post summary- was going to move bff in who I have a very brief romantic history with, into a 2 bedroom with 2 kids who are here part time).