Anonymous
Post 03/11/2026 18:04     Subject: 3 +s and 1 - about your SO

My husband's coworker has 600k debt in gambling. His clearance was revoked bc of it. I would divorce a gambler, just as bad as an alcoholic.
Anonymous
Post 03/11/2026 17:40     Subject: 3 +s and 1 - about your SO

+Tall, thin, conventionally handsome
+Very responsible, takes initiative, involved, thoughtful
+Devout Christian

-Socially introverted
Anonymous
Post 03/11/2026 17:15     Subject: 3 +s and 1 - about your SO

Anonymous wrote:Hilarious
6 pack abs
Giant schlong

- works too much


my steak is too juicy and my lobster is too buttery....
Anonymous
Post 03/11/2026 16:51     Subject: 3 +s and 1 - about your SO

+Generous and great provider
+Calm and laid back (I am super anxious and type A so thank god)
+Great dad
+great in bed

-Has a martyr complex
Anonymous
Post 03/11/2026 16:44     Subject: 3 +s and 1 - about your SO

+ Very attractive
+ Very smart and makes good money
+ Outgoing & personable

- Hoarder tendencies, has a panic attack when she needs to throw things away (it's genetic)
Anonymous
Post 03/11/2026 16:25     Subject: 3 +s and 1 - about your SO

Hilarious
6 pack abs
Giant schlong

- works too much
Anonymous
Post 03/11/2026 16:25     Subject: 3 +s and 1 - about your SO

+ Very organized and dependable
+ Cares
+ On the spectrum intelligent

- Overspender with a savior complex
Anonymous
Post 03/11/2026 16:16     Subject: 3 +s and 1 - about your SO

Mine:
+ He’s attractive - even moreso than when we got married
+ He’s a great and engaged parent
+ He’s very well endowed and great in bed

- He hasn’t been officially diagnosed but he most likely has ADHD which our son inherited.
Anonymous
Post 03/11/2026 16:12     Subject: 3 +s and 1 - about your SO

+Funny
+Great earner
+Has worked on himself in therapy

-Brushes his teeth while he pees and drips foamy saliva in front of the toilet.
Anonymous
Post 03/11/2026 15:11     Subject: Re:3 +s and 1 - about your SO

+ kids adore him (we are not married and he is not their dad)
+ he cleans the house
+ he is crazy about me

- adhd
Anonymous
Post 03/11/2026 15:03     Subject: 3 +s and 1 - about your SO

Ok…
Hilarious
Does his share
Handy

Fat
Anonymous
Post 03/11/2026 14:45     Subject: Re:3 +s and 1 - about your SO

Kind
Funny
Laid Back

Lazy/Messy
Anonymous
Post 03/11/2026 14:45     Subject: 3 +s and 1 - about your SO

LOL most of us been married to long to deal with that ratio. Can we do -3 +1?
Anonymous
Post 03/11/2026 09:07     Subject: 3 +s and 1 - about your SO

Anonymous wrote:Give us three positive things and one negative thing about your significant other.

Guy here, mid 40s married.

DW:
+ Attractive from day 1 and still is
+ Manages our lives / kids like a pro
+ Attentive in the marital department

- Gambles (I know, right!)



A gambling woman. Watch out now!

Anonymous
Post 03/10/2026 23:12     Subject: 3 +s and 1 - about your SO

Give us three positive things and one negative thing about your significant other.

Guy here, mid 40s married.

DW:
+ Attractive from day 1 and still is
+ Manages our lives / kids like a pro
+ Attentive in the marital department

- Gambles (I know, right!)