Anonymous
Post 03/09/2026 12:24     Subject: Desirability and Aging
Anonymous wrote:My issue is finding men desirable. 99% of them are not.


X1000
Anonymous
Post 03/09/2026 12:23     Subject: Desirability and Aging
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:My issue is finding men desirable. 99% of them are not.


THIS! After 40... yeesh. You have to have an awfully strong libido to take on a new one.

+1. Why are 0% of them in shape? It’s easier for them, no excuses.
Anonymous
Post 03/09/2026 08:36     Subject: Desirability and Aging
What a mean and unhelpful response. A lot of people come out of divorce feeling unloved and undesired. It's very normal. Stop trolling PP.
Anonymous
Post 03/09/2026 08:30     Subject: Desirability and Aging
You are recently single OP, so your thought process is warped. I don't know what led you to become single. Can you tell us. I'm guessing divorce. In not, sorry to be mean but most people, having had a lot of life experience at 50, aren't this shallow.
Anonymous
Post 03/09/2026 08:18     Subject: Desirability and Aging
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:50+ crowd, how do keep your desirability even as you age or was there a point you simply let go of the notion that you will be desirable. When did you just accept?

Am a 50 year old, recently single, average looking woman (fit and somewhat youthful looking when rested) and coping with thoughts of never feeling desirable...


Very simple trick to feel desirable. Give your business card or phone number to single guys you meet in restaurants or coffee shops. They will certainly call you.


You talk to randos in restaurants and coffee shops?
Anonymous
Post 03/09/2026 08:05     Subject: Desirability and Aging
Anonymous wrote:My issue is finding men desirable. 99% of them are not.


Really OP this will be the problem. At 50 you are still relatively young and will have no problem finding suitors. Unfortunately most men your age are falling apart. Go out anywhere and look around. Lots of pretty women around your age, men not so much.
Anonymous
Post 03/09/2026 07:18     Subject: Desirability and Aging
Are you very wealthy? I find that helps. At least it moves you in circles with other wealthy men, most who do take care of themselves and are not slobs. There is always the outlier though!
Anonymous
Post 03/09/2026 01:00     Subject: Desirability and Aging
Old men will find you desirable. You will not desire them.
Anonymous
Post 03/09/2026 00:29     Subject: Desirability and Aging
There is a lid for every pot.
Anonymous
Post 03/08/2026 23:54     Subject: Desirability and Aging
Anonymous wrote:My issue is finding men desirable. 99% of them are not.


THIS! After 40... yeesh. You have to have an awfully strong libido to take on a new one.
Anonymous
Post 03/08/2026 23:51     Subject: Desirability and Aging
My issue is finding men desirable. 99% of them are not.
Anonymous
Post 03/08/2026 23:48     Subject: Desirability and Aging
My mother met the love of her life at age 55. Her husband is the same age.

You will be fine especially if you are not fat. Just be confident.
Anonymous
Post 03/08/2026 23:16     Subject: Desirability and Aging
Anonymous wrote:50+ crowd, how do keep your desirability even as you age or was there a point you simply let go of the notion that you will be desirable. When did you just accept?

Am a 50 year old, recently single, average looking woman (fit and somewhat youthful looking when rested) and coping with thoughts of never feeling desirable...


Very simple trick to feel desirable. Give your business card or phone number to single guys you meet in restaurants or coffee shops. They will certainly call you.
Anonymous
Post 03/08/2026 23:11     Subject: Desirability and Aging
There will be men who find you desirable!

I’m a woman and have always been attracted to men my own age … and it seems like there are men who feel the same way. (I’m 55.)
Anonymous
Post 03/08/2026 23:01     Subject: Desirability and Aging
50+ crowd, how do keep your desirability even as you age or was there a point you simply let go of the notion that you will be desirable. When did you just accept?

Am a 50 year old, recently single, average looking woman (fit and somewhat youthful looking when rested) and coping with thoughts of never feeling desirable...