Anonymous
Post 03/03/2026 20:05     Subject: Single room

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Thanks for the replies! So he is having another, updated evaluation later this month because his current one is almost 5 years old. It’s 2 days of testing and the write-up last time was really thorough. We were planning to reach out to the disability services office for accommodations to be put in place for his classes. He’s looking at larger universities like JMU and Penn State. I guess we need to see what they offer and how he can try to have the best of both worlds if possible- a suite style single room. Otherwise I think he’ll have to take responsibility for ensuring he gets sleep and use earplugs and noise canceling machines. I’m debating whether to send his meds with him as he just started them this school year, and they make a difference but he can get there with the right food and sleep. For some reason I just don’t feel comfortable sending them as I worry about other kids finding them and misuse.

I highly recommend joining the FB group “Parents of College Bound Students with Learning Disabilities, ADHD and ASD.” There’s TONS of discussion and advice and links to lockboxes and safes, etc, for keeping medication secure in dorms. You could probably also ask in the special needs forum here on DCUM too.

https://m.facebook.com/groups/parentsofcollegeboundstudentswithld/


Thank you!!
Anonymous
Post 03/03/2026 20:04     Subject: Single room

Anonymous wrote:I have 2 college kids with ADHD who absolutely need (and do) take their meds in college. College kids aren't notorious for "getting there" with adequate sleep/nutrition.

Both of my kids got these safes for their meds and haven't had issues with other students. We did talk a lot about not publicizing that they had them/take them, absolutely no sharing of meds with others, being discrete about it, etc. They are juniors and it has been fine (this was a big worry for me.) They are managing the refills, etc.

https://www.amazon.com/SAFEGO-Portable-Indoor-Outdoor-Combination/dp/B017ROYKWK/ref=sr_1_15?crid=159H481IBZSYP&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.Oy8M_Ti2QE5JBT7vPGzmnxu0tkajhdO-bmpMwyBSlwJs23m8LgTi-3L5jmOiEyT5byzDrq3rPQCdgdhslX7OBYI631C1CEeSJA0XOPon-oDIgsk2cdwlJoX5_FffuGihoJEzpJRd0bnfMz6Q1yedhIIIR-pJ_9aWWBLCfV1uF1RNurCcCQ5S2fcHNTYZZ49HeUoCWLm97dms8nP7FcYfQf4EwcWR0bF19FAdgbEqqE48BZbd9CZBYkWtXoHmWyFXi_Q6ZP_5uWV1wYdtNl5kXSie61WUDV3iphgBM-oUYcE.tMCoOqSVjIM7gi_mtpP6PwgxE3XuOa-bMNlE4JGkb8k&dib_tag=se&keywords=hanging+safe+lock&qid=1772584321&sprefix=hanging+safe+lock%2Caps%2C131&sr=8-15


Thanks this is really helpful!
Anonymous
Post 03/03/2026 19:59     Subject: Single room

Single or double or triple doesn’t matter. Dorm floors will be parting and drinking so doesn’t matter. Going to get noisy
Anonymous
Post 03/03/2026 19:54     Subject: Single room

Two of mine made it clear they wanted singles when they accepted college offers. They got them. They did just fine. Many friends and happy and did well academically- and grateful to have a refuge in a single room.
Anonymous
Post 03/03/2026 19:51     Subject: Single room

Anonymous wrote:Thanks for the replies! So he is having another, updated evaluation later this month because his current one is almost 5 years old. It’s 2 days of testing and the write-up last time was really thorough. We were planning to reach out to the disability services office for accommodations to be put in place for his classes. He’s looking at larger universities like JMU and Penn State. I guess we need to see what they offer and how he can try to have the best of both worlds if possible- a suite style single room. Otherwise I think he’ll have to take responsibility for ensuring he gets sleep and use earplugs and noise canceling machines. I’m debating whether to send his meds with him as he just started them this school year, and they make a difference but he can get there with the right food and sleep. For some reason I just don’t feel comfortable sending them as I worry about other kids finding them and misuse.


Food and sleep are no substitutes for medicine, which you presumably know since you had him start meds in the first place. Why would you deny him a tool that helps just as things get harder instead of, I dunno, buying him a safe and teaching him how to manage it?
Anonymous
Post 03/03/2026 19:35     Subject: Single room

I have 2 college kids with ADHD who absolutely need (and do) take their meds in college. College kids aren't notorious for "getting there" with adequate sleep/nutrition.

Both of my kids got these safes for their meds and haven't had issues with other students. We did talk a lot about not publicizing that they had them/take them, absolutely no sharing of meds with others, being discrete about it, etc. They are juniors and it has been fine (this was a big worry for me.) They are managing the refills, etc.

https://www.amazon.com/SAFEGO-Portable-Indoor-Outdoor-Combination/dp/B017ROYKWK/ref=sr_1_15?crid=159H481IBZSYP&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.Oy8M_Ti2QE5JBT7vPGzmnxu0tkajhdO-bmpMwyBSlwJs23m8LgTi-3L5jmOiEyT5byzDrq3rPQCdgdhslX7OBYI631C1CEeSJA0XOPon-oDIgsk2cdwlJoX5_FffuGihoJEzpJRd0bnfMz6Q1yedhIIIR-pJ_9aWWBLCfV1uF1RNurCcCQ5S2fcHNTYZZ49HeUoCWLm97dms8nP7FcYfQf4EwcWR0bF19FAdgbEqqE48BZbd9CZBYkWtXoHmWyFXi_Q6ZP_5uWV1wYdtNl5kXSie61WUDV3iphgBM-oUYcE.tMCoOqSVjIM7gi_mtpP6PwgxE3XuOa-bMNlE4JGkb8k&dib_tag=se&keywords=hanging+safe+lock&qid=1772584321&sprefix=hanging+safe+lock%2Caps%2C131&sr=8-15
Anonymous
Post 03/03/2026 19:26     Subject: Single room

Anonymous wrote:Thanks for the replies! So he is having another, updated evaluation later this month because his current one is almost 5 years old. It’s 2 days of testing and the write-up last time was really thorough. We were planning to reach out to the disability services office for accommodations to be put in place for his classes. He’s looking at larger universities like JMU and Penn State. I guess we need to see what they offer and how he can try to have the best of both worlds if possible- a suite style single room. Otherwise I think he’ll have to take responsibility for ensuring he gets sleep and use earplugs and noise canceling machines. I’m debating whether to send his meds with him as he just started them this school year, and they make a difference but he can get there with the right food and sleep. For some reason I just don’t feel comfortable sending them as I worry about other kids finding them and misuse.

I highly recommend joining the FB group “Parents of College Bound Students with Learning Disabilities, ADHD and ASD.” There’s TONS of discussion and advice and links to lockboxes and safes, etc, for keeping medication secure in dorms. You could probably also ask in the special needs forum here on DCUM too.

https://m.facebook.com/groups/parentsofcollegeboundstudentswithld/
Anonymous
Post 03/03/2026 19:22     Subject: Single room

Anonymous wrote:Thanks for the replies! So he is having another, updated evaluation later this month because his current one is almost 5 years old. It’s 2 days of testing and the write-up last time was really thorough. We were planning to reach out to the disability services office for accommodations to be put in place for his classes. He’s looking at larger universities like JMU and Penn State. I guess we need to see what they offer and how he can try to have the best of both worlds if possible- a suite style single room. Otherwise I think he’ll have to take responsibility for ensuring he gets sleep and use earplugs and noise canceling machines. I’m debating whether to send his meds with him as he just started them this school year, and they make a difference but he can get there with the right food and sleep. For some reason I just don’t feel comfortable sending them as I worry about other kids finding them and misuse.


He’s not my kid. But whether or not to take his meds really should be up to him, no? Because you have a “for some reason “ concern about a kid that you hope will have a single room due to a disability, you’re making the decision to hold back a support that you know will help him — just as he’s going into a new and stressful environment? You’re somehow sure that “he can get there with the right food and sleep” — which is really a sure thing for a college freshman, right? Are you trolling? Setting him up for failure? Helicoptering like mad with your own anxieties?

I don’t get it. I really don’t. Peace out.
Anonymous
Post 03/03/2026 19:02     Subject: Single room

Highly unlikely to get accommodations in those circumstances. Look for colleges where you can pay extra for a single if you think it's sufficiently important. I remember UMD has that option.
Anonymous
Post 03/03/2026 18:58     Subject: Single room

Just based on what I’ve heard about how common it’s becoming for kids to try to request single room accommodations and how many schools are tightening up on granting them, it’s seems unlikely at many schools. You can always ask how common it is for single room accommodations to be granted, though.
Anonymous
Post 03/03/2026 18:55     Subject: Single room

Thanks for the replies! So he is having another, updated evaluation later this month because his current one is almost 5 years old. It’s 2 days of testing and the write-up last time was really thorough. We were planning to reach out to the disability services office for accommodations to be put in place for his classes. He’s looking at larger universities like JMU and Penn State. I guess we need to see what they offer and how he can try to have the best of both worlds if possible- a suite style single room. Otherwise I think he’ll have to take responsibility for ensuring he gets sleep and use earplugs and noise canceling machines. I’m debating whether to send his meds with him as he just started them this school year, and they make a difference but he can get there with the right food and sleep. For some reason I just don’t feel comfortable sending them as I worry about other kids finding them and misuse.
Anonymous
Post 03/03/2026 18:37     Subject: Re:Single room

Maybe find out what the college offers. Do the have apartments or suites where the students have individual bedrooms as well as shared spaces? That way he’d get both a single room and roommates. If this is an option, it might be a matter of requesting this as a housing option, or paying more for it. Have you spoken with the school’s disability support services to determine how such a request would be handled IF you chose to request a single room in light of his ADHD diagnosis?
Anonymous
Post 03/03/2026 18:36     Subject: Re:Single room

Does he know where he's going yet?

Urge him to find the webpage for the disability office at the school he's planning on or is likely to attend.
You can read together what it says about securing accommodations.

Find out what kind of documentation might be needed and talk together about who might provide it.

But really, help your son practice the self-advocacy he'll need to succeed in college, and support him as he does this. He can start by calling housing and disability offices as needed. If that's hard with his ADHD, see if you can block out time and he can watch you do it, or you can give him a script and see how that goes.

Let us know what he has to say!
Anonymous
Post 03/03/2026 18:31     Subject: Single room

Anonymous
Post 03/03/2026 18:29     Subject: Single room

Hi, I’m getting nervous about my second child going to college in the fall. He has ADHD and is a light sleeper (unlike his brother who can sleep through anything). So there’s a world of difference for him with and without sleep. Has anyone requested a single room for this reason? I understand ADHD is so common so why would he be special and even get a single room? Also I’m worried about him being alone - I’ve heard that a roommate first year is important for mental health. Any thoughts would be appreciated!!