Anonymous
03/01/2026 22:00
Subject: What (if anything) should be salary/NW/age parameters for a life partner?
Anonymous wrote:Try not being so materialistic, OP. Might have helped you stay married.
oh please. Would you tell a man to not care about a woman's appearance when searching for a mate?
I hate the misogynist hypocrisy.
Everyone has preferences and preferring a beauty is no more or less valid or noble than preferring resources.
Anonymous
03/01/2026 21:55
Subject: What (if anything) should be salary/NW/age parameters for a life partner?
I think you should switch teams. Start dating women.
Anonymous
03/01/2026 21:52
Subject: What (if anything) should be salary/NW/age parameters for a life partner?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Mid-50s divorced straight woman, earn $250K, NW $4M, one adult child. Thin, pretty, nice.
Hypothetical partner must be a decent human and not currently married.
Does an 8” D help?
No, above average is unimportant and often a negative in or out of bed.
Anonymous
03/01/2026 19:39
Subject: What (if anything) should be salary/NW/age parameters for a life partner?
Anonymous wrote:Mid-50s divorced straight woman, earn $250K, NW $4M, one adult child. Thin, pretty, nice.
Hypothetical partner must be a decent human and not currently married.
Does an 8” D help?
Anonymous
03/01/2026 19:34
Subject: What (if anything) should be salary/NW/age parameters for a life partner?
We must be similarly yoked, so mid-6-figure salary, be within 10 years of each other, ivy league grad at some point in their education
Anonymous
03/01/2026 19:05
Subject: What (if anything) should be salary/NW/age parameters for a life partner?
You shouldn't set parameters like this but ideally the person would be able to support himself. The amount of his salary and net worth should match how he likes to spend.
Anonymous
03/01/2026 18:59
Subject: What (if anything) should be salary/NW/age parameters for a life partner?
Anonymous wrote:PS - Also, I am an inverted-triangle shape, so I have to try to minimize my top, and try to wear darker colors (although sometimes all white/cream or other monochrome).
I like more textured things, in that they are more forgiving (say that a T shirt... which is what started all this) but I can't do really textured fabrics given my body shape.
For this reason (broad shoulders), puffy sleeves and other voluminous tops just don't work.
I also don't find button downs comfortable (in addition to the gaping issue).
6 feet; size 14 usually.
I hear you.
Anonymous
03/01/2026 18:53
Subject: What (if anything) should be salary/NW/age parameters for a life partner?
Anonymous wrote:Mid-50s divorced straight woman, earn $250K, NW $4M, one adult child. Thin, pretty, nice.
Hypothetical partner must be a decent human and not currently married.
At mid-50s it’s over. Why do you need a partner at that age? A new partner at that age will just disturb your peace and mess up your life. You are financially secure. Your kids are adults. You don’t need a man to add meaning to your life.
Anonymous
03/01/2026 16:26
Subject: What (if anything) should be salary/NW/age parameters for a life partner?
Thin and a size 14 do not align. Do you mean that’s your shoe size?
Anonymous
03/01/2026 16:04
Subject: What (if anything) should be salary/NW/age parameters for a life partner?
Try not being so materialistic, OP. Might have helped you stay married.
Anonymous
03/01/2026 16:03
Subject: What (if anything) should be salary/NW/age parameters for a life partner?
You posted this stuff already OP.
Anonymous
03/01/2026 16:00
Subject: What (if anything) should be salary/NW/age parameters for a life partner?
PS - Also, I am an inverted-triangle shape, so I have to try to minimize my top, and try to wear darker colors (although sometimes all white/cream or other monochrome).
I like more textured things, in that they are more forgiving (say that a T shirt... which is what started all this) but I can't do really textured fabrics given my body shape.
For this reason (broad shoulders), puffy sleeves and other voluminous tops just don't work.
I also don't find button downs comfortable (in addition to the gaping issue).
6 feet; size 14 usually.
I like more textured things, in that they are more forgiving (say that a T shirt... which is what started all this) but I can't do really textured fabrics given my body shape.
For this reason (broad shoulders), puffy sleeves and other voluminous tops just don't work.
I also don't find button downs comfortable (in addition to the gaping issue).
6 feet; size 14 usually.
Anonymous
03/01/2026 15:49
Subject: What (if anything) should be salary/NW/age parameters for a life partner?
See if anyone is interested in you first then come back and let us triage them.
Anonymous
03/01/2026 15:47
Subject: Re:What (if anything) should be salary/NW/age parameters for a life partner?
So your biggest concern with finding someone else while in your mid-50s is their wealth? Can't imagine why you are single.
Anonymous
03/01/2026 15:44
Subject: What (if anything) should be salary/NW/age parameters for a life partner?
Mid-50s divorced straight woman, earn $250K, NW $4M, one adult child. Thin, pretty, nice.
Hypothetical partner must be a decent human and not currently married.
Hypothetical partner must be a decent human and not currently married.