Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:OP, there's a clear answer here: so far as colleges are concerned, participation in high school athletics matter no more and no less than any other kind of high school extracurricular activity UNLESS you're a recruited athlete. In that case it matters a great deal more.
So if your kid can't make the varsity team he wasn't going to get recruited anyway.
My frustration isn't about student athletes and being recruited. A 9th grader shouldn't have to compete at the Varsity level to be able to play for their school, have the chance to grow by being a part of a team sport, etc. Fewer teams = fewer extracurricular opportunities for our students.
Anonymous wrote:OP, there's a clear answer here: so far as colleges are concerned, participation in high school athletics matter no more and no less than any other kind of high school extracurricular activity UNLESS you're a recruited athlete. In that case it matters a great deal more.
So if your kid can't make the varsity team he wasn't going to get recruited anyway.
Anonymous wrote:It is one of the things I hate about this area. Not so much for college admission reasons, but just not being able to have the experience of representing their school in a sport that they have really enjoyed growing up, when they are still pretty darn good at it but not elite. I am seeing my hometown friends’ kids being able to participate in the sport of their choice even if they are not an elite athlete, or even be able to try a new sport in middle or high school. Where I grew up is not rural by any means, but not a major metro area. I really don’t think it’s a uniformly good thing for kids to grow up in a hyper competitive environment. I struggled with self-esteem when I was younger and later on built self-confidence through being able to be successful at something. I think growing up somewhere like this would have felt very discouraging to me and I may not have persisted at the thing that I ended up being really good at. I wish I thought about this kind of thing more when my kids were younger, but I was so busy with the day-to-day of raising little ones. And now it feels like we’re stuck with this unless we really had to move for a compelling reason. I’ve tried to prepare my middle schooler about how hard it is to make most of the sports teams so it’s not such a disappointment when they get to high school.
Anonymous wrote:OP, there's a clear answer here: so far as colleges are concerned, participation in high school athletics matter no more and no less than any other kind of high school extracurricular activity UNLESS you're a recruited athlete. In that case it matters a great deal more.
So if your kid can't make the varsity team he wasn't going to get recruited anyway.
Anonymous wrote:Be lucky he plays a sport like tennis that is not that competitive. 150 boys tried out for 36 soccer spots at our school this week.
Its frustrating that such a wealthy county doesn't seem to care about offering multiple levels of the sport to broaden participation.