Don't listen to he haters. This is going to go great.

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Anonymous wrote:So I've been talking to a guy I met online and I don't like online dating in general because I'm always afraid that they won't think I look as hot as my pictures or of the awkwardness etc. but I've been talking to this guy for almost 2 years. It's been long distance but he had moved to my state on a whim. So he conceals carry and I like him, but there are things about him that are very impulsive. And I think he has anxious attachment style too. So I'm a little nervous about meeting him because we also exchanged a lot of sexual stuff and I'm pretty shy in person and reserved. But I'm pretty let loose after you get to know me with friends. So I guess I'm just treading with caution and it's funny because I asked AI where we should meet and it immediately suggested police station or a very crowded place. So I don't know. I don't like online dating but it's the only way to meet people now especially being a shy girl like me. And I can't always tell when that guy likes me.

Bad idea to start out a relationship like this. He won't want a relationship, just a hook up.

Look up the burned haystack method before you head any further.

Then I must be the hottest 40-year-old because he moved here and got a job here in Virginia and his plan is to marry me. Yes, without meeting yet. I delayed it because I am a nervous anxious person too. And I'm shy. That's why I'm not married.

RED FLAGS ABOUND

There are so many red flags here I don’t even know where to start. I just hope this is a troll.

Anonymous wrote:Are you sure this guy is real? 2 years to not meet in person is a long time. I’d be worried if he suddenly asks you to send him money to buy his plane ticket or something. This could be a scam. Just saying.

Yes we video cammed before and yes, he is real and I think we're both attractive. Very attractive actually. But yes we are weird in different ways. I think that's why we get along well. And yes he has a permit for his concealed carry

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Anonymous wrote:So I've been talking to a guy I met online and I don't like online dating in general because I'm always afraid that they won't think I look as hot as my pictures or of the awkwardness etc. but I've been talking to this guy for almost 2 years. It's been long distance but he had moved to my state on a whim. So he conceals carry and I like him, but there are things about him that are very impulsive. And I think he has anxious attachment style too. So I'm a little nervous about meeting him because we also exchanged a lot of sexual stuff and I'm pretty shy in person and reserved. But I'm pretty let loose after you get to know me with friends. So I guess I'm just treading with caution and it's funny because I asked AI where we should meet and it immediately suggested police station or a very crowded place. So I don't know. I don't like online dating but it's the only way to meet people now especially being a shy girl like me. And I can't always tell when that guy likes me.

Bad idea to start out a relationship like this. He won't want a relationship, just a hook up.

Look up the burned haystack method before you head any further.

Then I must be the hottest 40-year-old because he moved here and got a job here in Virginia and his plan is to marry me. Yes, without meeting yet. I delayed it because I am a nervous anxious person too. And I'm shy. That's why I'm not married.

Are you sure this guy is real? 2 years to not meet in person is a long time. I’d be worried if he suddenly asks you to send him money to buy his plane ticket or something. This could be a scam. Just saying.

Douchebag.

Anonymous wrote:So I've been talking to a guy I met online and I don't like online dating in general because I'm always afraid that they won't think I look as hot as my pictures or of the awkwardness etc. but I've been talking to this guy for almost 2 years. It's been long distance but he had moved to my state on a whim. So he conceals carry and I like him, but there are things about him that are very impulsive. And I think he has anxious attachment style too. So I'm a little nervous about meeting him because we also exchanged a lot of sexual stuff and I'm pretty shy in person and reserved. But I'm pretty let loose after you get to know me with friends. So I guess I'm just treading with caution and it's funny because I asked AI where we should meet and it immediately suggested police station or a very crowded place. So I don't know. I don't like online dating but it's the only way to meet people now especially being a shy girl like me. And I can't always tell when that guy likes me.

Bad idea to start out a relationship like this. He won't want a relationship, just a hook up.

Look up the burned haystack method before you head any further.

The concealed carry wouldn't necessarily bother me. Impulsive and with an anxious attachment personality? Massive red flag. Why even bother?

Is it legal for him to carry in your state? Does he have permit?

I'm a very conservative person. And I think it is a yellow flag. There are a couple reasons that it may be fine. 1. former infantry-just part of the culture 2. former law enforcement-same.

Otherwise, it signals to me that they're a weirdo. I have friends like this and they're weird. They have zero training, but they took this class that one time so they're a hero in their own minds already.

The normal people who carry concealed would not tell you in online chat.

I personally wouldn’t date him. The gun thing is not ok.

Meet up in a safe place and see how it goes. Keep an open mind.

Oh and I'm also not young or under 30 so please don't assume that

So I've been talking to a guy I met online and I don't like online dating in general because I'm always afraid that they won't think I look as hot as my pictures or of the awkwardness etc. but I've been talking to this guy for almost 2 years. It's been long distance but he had moved to my state on a whim. So he conceals carry and I like him, but there are things about him that are very impulsive. And I think he has anxious attachment style too. So I'm a little nervous about meeting him because we also exchanged a lot of sexual stuff and I'm pretty shy in person and reserved. But I'm pretty let loose after you get to know me with friends. So I guess I'm just treading with caution and it's funny because I asked AI where we should meet and it immediately suggested police station or a very crowded place. So I don't know. I don't like online dating but it's the only way to meet people now especially being a shy girl like me. And I can't always tell when that guy likes me.