Anonymous
Post 02/12/2026 16:21     Subject: Not much to offer, but lonely. Should I try OLD?
Anonymous wrote:I’m a divorced f with a busy job, not much time off, and can’t take more time off. Maybe an element of presenteeism. But when I’m off, I feel a bit lonely. I have a dog and a few close friends, but not much energy to socialize. I think a decent, funny gentleman to go on a few dates with could be fun?

Divorced, otherwise stable, but a little bit lonely people, what’s your experience?


Are you fat? If not, it’ll be a good way to find hook ups. No self respecting man worth anything will use OLD to find a real relationship.
Anonymous
Post 02/12/2026 15:18     Subject: Not much to offer, but lonely. Should I try OLD?
Do you mean you don't have a lot to offer in terms of time? Can you elaborate? Are you a kind interesting person?
Anonymous
Post 02/11/2026 21:54     Subject: Not much to offer, but lonely. Should I try OLD?
Why do you feel you don't have much to offer? You sound like a normal person.
I have not had much success finding a genuine match using OLD, but I have had several nice coffees/happy hours with guys that consisted of pleasant enough conversation. I'm not sorry I met them, just don't feel like there was a connection.
Anonymous
Post 02/10/2026 19:35     Subject: Not much to offer, but lonely. Should I try OLD?
Anonymous wrote:I would look for activities to do with other people. Maybe that’s hiking, knitting, protesting ICE, whatever.


I would try to stay as far away as possible from any ICE agents.

For obvious reasons.
Anonymous
Post 02/10/2026 15:29     Subject: Not much to offer, but lonely. Should I try OLD?
Anonymous wrote:I would look for activities to do with other people. Maybe that’s hiking, knitting, protesting ICE, whatever.


Agree with this advice.

Some women like sex too.
Anonymous
Post 02/10/2026 14:32     Subject: Not much to offer, but lonely. Should I try OLD?
Protesting ICE.

Pros: you will meet men. Strong alpha men. Powerful men who will physically subjugate you.

Cons: you may not survive your first date.
Anonymous
Post 02/10/2026 13:36     Subject: Not much to offer, but lonely. Should I try OLD?
Anonymous wrote:I would look for activities to do with other people. Maybe that’s hiking, knitting, protesting ICE, whatever.


Protesting ICE?? LOL
Anonymous
Post 02/10/2026 13:36     Subject: Not much to offer, but lonely. Should I try OLD?
How old are you, OP? That would decide a lot on what is available out there.
Anonymous
Post 02/10/2026 13:26     Subject: Not much to offer, but lonely. Should I try OLD?
Work on things that add to what you offer.
Anonymous
Post 02/10/2026 12:09     Subject: Not much to offer, but lonely. Should I try OLD?
Anonymous wrote:I would look for activities to do with other people. Maybe that’s hiking, knitting, protesting ICE, whatever.


Anonymous
Post 02/10/2026 10:50     Subject: Not much to offer, but lonely. Should I try OLD?
Better off out in the wild than on OLD these days. No need to add disappointed to lonely.
Anonymous
Post 02/10/2026 10:38     Subject: Not much to offer, but lonely. Should I try OLD?
Maybe you can meet somebody at the dog park.
Anonymous
Post 02/10/2026 09:54     Subject: Not much to offer, but lonely. Should I try OLD?
When I was in that boat 2 years ago, I put myself out there and did some TimeLeft dinners and actually really enjoyed it. Its a bunch of others in the same boat for whatever reason.
Anonymous
Post 02/10/2026 09:34     Subject: Not much to offer, but lonely. Should I try OLD?
I would look for activities to do with other people. Maybe that’s hiking, knitting, protesting ICE, whatever.
Anonymous
Post 02/10/2026 09:32     Subject: Not much to offer, but lonely. Should I try OLD?
I’m a divorced f with a busy job, not much time off, and can’t take more time off. Maybe an element of presenteeism. But when I’m off, I feel a bit lonely. I have a dog and a few close friends, but not much energy to socialize. I think a decent, funny gentleman to go on a few dates with could be fun?

Divorced, otherwise stable, but a little bit lonely people, what’s your experience?