Anonymous
Post 02/09/2026 16:30     Subject: Is a 30 year age difference ever anything but gold digger?
I had a family member with a 42 year gap. It worked. Wife was independently wealthy too.
Anonymous
Post 02/09/2026 16:27     Subject: Re:Is a 30 year age difference ever anything but gold digger?
I actually dated a 57 year old when I was 24, I loved old guys. He was a good man and made me feel so safe in a scary world.
Anonymous
Post 02/09/2026 16:15     Subject: Is a 30 year age difference ever anything but gold digger?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:When there isnt any gold.


Are you the OP?

No, I guess PP is saying that it's not gold digging when there isn't any gold. I feel like you could argue that with that sort of power imbalance, that the younger one might perceive the older one as having gold in relation to what they have.


Some women marry thinking the guy has money, or as you are saying, whatever they do have it is more than she has.

I wonder if this is prompted by the Super Bowl photos of 84 yo Robert Kraft with his 52 year old wife.


At least she's accomplished in her own right. She still has to lay down with the guy who went to a massage parlor.
Anonymous
Post 02/09/2026 16:14     Subject: Is a 30 year age difference ever anything but gold digger?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:When there isnt any gold.


Are you the OP?

No, I guess PP is saying that it's not gold digging when there isn't any gold. I feel like you could argue that with that sort of power imbalance, that the younger one might perceive the older one as having gold in relation to what they have.


Some women marry thinking the guy has money, or as you are saying, whatever they do have it is more than she has.

I wonder if this is prompted by the Super Bowl photos of 84 yo Robert Kraft with his 52 year old wife.


Yes, that comparison to my dad, actually. Both are vile to me.
Anonymous
Post 02/09/2026 16:14     Subject: Re:Is a 30 year age difference ever anything but gold digger?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:gold or fetish--some women are prone to having fetishes too-its not just men


Is old man a fettish?


yes-a fetish


gross.
Anonymous
Post 02/09/2026 16:13     Subject: Is a 30 year age difference ever anything but gold digger?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:When there isnt any gold.


Are you the OP?

No, I guess PP is saying that it's not gold digging when there isn't any gold. I feel like you could argue that with that sort of power imbalance, that the younger one might perceive the older one as having gold in relation to what they have.


Some women marry thinking the guy has money, or as you are saying, whatever they do have it is more than she has.

I wonder if this is prompted by the Super Bowl photos of 84 yo Robert Kraft with his 52 year old wife.
Anonymous
Post 02/09/2026 16:13     Subject: Re:Is a 30 year age difference ever anything but gold digger?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:gold or fetish--some women are prone to having fetishes too-its not just men


Is old man a fettish?


yes-a fetish
Anonymous
Post 02/09/2026 16:11     Subject: Re:Is a 30 year age difference ever anything but gold digger?
Anonymous wrote:gold or fetish--some women are prone to having fetishes too-its not just men


Is old man a fettish?
Anonymous
Post 02/09/2026 16:11     Subject: Is a 30 year age difference ever anything but gold digger?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:When there isnt any gold.


Are you the OP?

No, I guess PP is saying that it's not gold digging when there isn't any gold. I feel like you could argue that with that sort of power imbalance, that the younger one might perceive the older one as having gold in relation to what they have.
Anonymous
Post 02/09/2026 15:59     Subject: Re:Is a 30 year age difference ever anything but gold digger?
gold or fetish--some women are prone to having fetishes too-its not just men
Anonymous
Post 02/09/2026 15:58     Subject: Is a 30 year age difference ever anything but gold digger?
Anonymous wrote:When there isnt any gold.


Are you the OP?
Anonymous
Post 02/09/2026 15:57     Subject: Is a 30 year age difference ever anything but gold digger?
Anonymous wrote:When there isnt any gold.


When there is gold or perceived gold.
Anonymous
Post 02/09/2026 15:57     Subject: Is a 30 year age difference ever anything but gold digger?
Over 40, no.

I've seen some 20 year olds who have a daddy complex hooking up with 40-50 year olds.
Anonymous
Post 02/09/2026 15:57     Subject: Is a 30 year age difference ever anything but gold digger?
When there isnt any gold.
Anonymous
Post 02/09/2026 15:54     Subject: Is a 30 year age difference ever anything but gold digger?
When both parties are over 40.

What about 25 years? 20years?