Sign up for the postal service to tell you what mail you will be receiving. They should send you photos of it with the return addresses. I think you can elect to pick up your mail. But other than that, once you have the return addresses you can send postcards to all her men and let them know where she lives. Or put a sign inside your window with an arrow towards her house

OP, just ask the post office to hold all your mail. Then go and collect your mail, once a week. That way you can use/sell/trash/donate/return the stuff that is coming to her on your address.

Kristen Wiig voice: “It’s my middle name… and also your address… and also none of your business.” Bold strategy. Even bolder follow-through to simply disappear.

Anonymous wrote:I’d let her know that I now have cameras and if I see her getting packages from my door again, I’ll be forced to report her to the police department and give them the video.

Report her for package theft I mean!

I’d let her know that I now have cameras and if I see her getting packages from my door again, I’ll be forced to report her to the police department and give them the video.

I am unclear, was this just a one time occurrence?

Wow, I would be really upset too, especially because I have a daughter at home. At the very least get USPS informed delivery so you can track anything coming from USPS.

Sounds fake

You might casually mentioned that scamming people is one thing, but that using the postal system to scam people is a whole other thing -- a fed crime kind of thing.

She did it once?
That you know of.
She knows that the you caught her. I assume she wont be stupid enough to do it again.
Move on.

Get cameras.

Get a security camera or Ring doorbell now. Your neighbor is a weirdo.

I would call the post office and find out if the postal inspector can do anything. That is effed up.

Wow, your neighbor is a complete idiot. Please continue to insist that she stop using your address.

My neighbor has been using my address to get gift /money sent to her from men she's meeting off dating sites. The other day when I was leaving my home to go run errands. I noticed two packages at my front door. One of the packages was for me from something I had ordered. The other one had my address on it, but with another woman's name on it. For a minute I thought someone had made a mistake with the address. The package was partially opened just enough where I could see that there was flowers in the inside. I grab the box to see if it could be returned to sender and that's when the neighbor came out and told me that it belonged to her. I was baffled because the name on the box was not hers. I questioned her about it and she said it was her middle name. I then questioned her as to why the package sent to her didn't have her address on it instead it had mine. She got a little defensive and tongue twisted and said that it must've been a mistake the place who sent the flowers. I was so not believing her to the point after we parted ways I called her later to question her about it again. She continued to be defensive claiming it was a mistake and that she wouldn't use my address to receive gifts from men. The next day she called me and told me she wanted to show me proof that she had given the guy who sent the flowers her address and not mine. She said she'd come over to show me. Well it's been two days and she has not presented her evidence of proof and she has stopped answering my calls and texts. Before doing that I told her that it is dangerous for some man she has just met off the Internet to now have my address. She claimed he would not do anything to me because he was hundreds of miles away.. I told her that she needed to get a PO Box so that this wouldn't happen again. I know she's meeting men off of the Internet and now I am wondering how long has this been going on. I don't want one of those guys coming after me in case she decides to ghost them. Thoughts anyone?