Anonymous
Post 02/08/2026 13:20     Subject: Frat parties

Anonymous wrote:We are visiting UVa this weekend. Does anyone have tips for attending a frat party?


Wear shoes you don’t mind getting trashed. They’ll get beer spilled on them, possibly puke.
Anonymous
Post 02/08/2026 13:18     Subject: Frat parties

We are visiting UVa this weekend. Does anyone have tips for attending a frat party?
Anonymous
Post 02/08/2026 08:48     Subject: Frat parties

If it's parent's weekend and your son is in that fraternity and parents are in fact invited. Then yes. Otherwise, please don't.
Anonymous
Post 02/08/2026 08:27     Subject: Frat parties

At a few schools, I teased DD about doing this. She was absolutely mortified by the idea … rightly so!!
Anonymous
Post 02/08/2026 08:09     Subject: Frat parties

And, if they bring booze.
Anonymous
Post 02/08/2026 07:19     Subject: Frat parties

Most houses would let moms in if they’re still attractive and in shape.
Anonymous
Post 02/08/2026 05:04     Subject: Frat parties

Moms in frat parties. Instagramable.
Anonymous
Post 02/08/2026 00:06     Subject: Frat parties

Yes parents weekend. Darties abound.
Anonymous
Post 02/07/2026 21:45     Subject: Frat parties

Anonymous wrote:Only if you are paying for the party. And even then, no.

OMG. Cringy.


I’d pay the door fee

OP
Anonymous
Post 02/07/2026 21:23     Subject: Frat parties

Only if you are paying for the party. And even then, no.

OMG. Cringy.
Anonymous
Post 02/07/2026 20:59     Subject: Frat parties

If they know an older kid there then sure. An adult at a frat party if it is not parents weekend or a football game weekend would be weird…
Anonymous
Post 02/07/2026 20:22     Subject: Frat parties

lol troll
Anonymous
Post 02/07/2026 20:05     Subject: Frat parties

Wow. Just wow.
Anonymous
Post 02/07/2026 19:41     Subject: Frat parties

That’s funny.
Anonymous
Post 02/07/2026 19:31     Subject: Frat parties

Is it possible to take your kid to a frat party when visiting colleges? Would it help if you were an alumni or legacy?