Maybe she’s poor and worried about being judged for living in a dump.

If there are kids or ex or whatever should be clear about it after seeing them 5 to 8 times.

Maybe she still lives at home or she has a doll collection!

Month or two

Moms basement

This makes me think of that Seinfeld episode where Jerry dates a woman whose apt is a disgusting mess.

It's probably a mess.

Who cares? If she’s coming to your place to get it on, that should be enough for you.

A couple of months. After that, you are hiding something. Could be a boyfriend, could be a mess, could be a child, could be a house full of lizards...

She's married or living with someone.

My bf didnt come to my house for over a year. I was honest from day 1 that my ex husband lives on my block and Im not comfortable having anyone over until my kids know about them. Also, my house is the school bus stop so my kids are on my lawn everyday (and often pop in) at 745am and 4pm.

He was very patient and understanding and I appreciated it immensely.

Don’t you ask about it? If you haven’t, you guys already have communication issues and you should break it off now.

She’s married.

Not long like a month or two.

What’s the longest you’d date someone without having seen where they live? To me it’s kinda sketch of they never invite you over, especially if you’ve invited them.