Anonymous wrote:Lived in both. I prefer Brooklyn, it feels less transient. If I were starting now with that budget, I think I"d try ditmas park/prospect park or PLG. The Q is emptier and so fast (would be faster than park slope), the schools are good, low taxes, you'll be on a block with the same kids for 15 years which is a gift. But 2mm might be tight. if I had more money, I'd do Brooklyn Heights or Cobble Hill, but that's substantially more than UWS
Those neighborhoods might be OK for lower Manhattan but the commute to midtown from there is substantially longer than from the UWS - you're talking about an extra hour a day. Depending on where in midtown and where on the UWS one can literally walk to work on a nice day. With young kids the extra commuting time saved is really huge.