Anonymous
Post 02/11/2026 11:51     Subject: 2nd grader wants to wear tank tops

Did he watch the Bad Bunny halftime show?
Anonymous
Post 02/08/2026 21:28     Subject: 2nd grader wants to wear tank tops

Store away all the summer clothes if it’s a problem. This is a post-April vacation battle, not a February battle.
Anonymous
Post 02/04/2026 14:56     Subject: 2nd grader wants to wear tank tops

I do not understand why you would even buy your son a tank top?
Anonymous
Post 02/04/2026 14:54     Subject: 2nd grader wants to wear tank tops

Who cares. He might learn the hard way once, and it's not like he's going to die of exposure in that one occurrence. We don't live in Siberia.
Anonymous
Post 02/04/2026 14:53     Subject: 2nd grader wants to wear tank tops

Op, you are overthinking it. Let him wear a tank top.
Anonymous
Post 02/04/2026 14:51     Subject: 2nd grader wants to wear tank tops

Natural consequences. Let him look up the weather and feel outside. Offer your recommendation. Then he can choose what to wear. If he’s miserable for a day, he’ll make a better choice tomorrow.
Anonymous
Post 02/04/2026 14:24     Subject: 2nd grader wants to wear tank tops

You don’t get to decide when your kid is cold. This isn’t a hill I am willing to die on. Let him see the natural consequences of this action. Pack a long sleeve shirt, layer him up, and off to school you go!
Anonymous
Post 02/04/2026 10:59     Subject: 2nd grader wants to wear tank tops

I would just say no. My kid has beloved clothes she sometimes wants to wear in the winter and I just say no, it's not appropriate for the weather.

One time she threw a huge fit about wanting to wear this dress that she'd outgrown and was too short for her, and when I suggested wearing pants with it she threw another fit about wanting to wear tights. Her grandmother was visiting and she wanted to wear this outfit for a special outing with her grandmother. It was just a couple hours so I finally said, "you know what, okay. I am telling you right now that if you wear this, you will be extremely uncomfortable the entire time. But if you won't listen to me and insist, you can wear it."

And she was absolutely freezing (she of course also wore a warm coat and boots and hat and mittens but it didn't matter because her legs were just not sufficiently layered). She came home early from the outing and since then she fights me a lot less on wearing weather-appropriate clothes.

But that was just a couple hours and grandma was on board for letting her learn that lesson. I wouldn't do that with school where it's the whole day and I'm off loading her misery onto teachers and admin.
Anonymous
Post 02/04/2026 10:50     Subject: 2nd grader wants to wear tank tops

I mean, what? Lots of kids wear tank tops as undershirts.
My kid wears shorts sleeves, shorts and a sweatshirt to school until it's like 15 degrees outside and he's fine.
Anonymous
Post 02/03/2026 16:24     Subject: 2nd grader wants to wear tank tops

Throw them away.
Anonymous
Post 02/03/2026 16:19     Subject: 2nd grader wants to wear tank tops

DS, 8, got some tank tops over the summer. No sleeves was perfectly fine in the DC heat but now… He says he would wear a hoodie and jacket over it but if he lost an outer layer I worry he would freeze. How do I handle this?