Anonymous
Post 01/23/2026 21:14     Subject: Which is Worse?

Break up already stop playing games.
Anonymous
Post 01/23/2026 21:12     Subject: Re:Which is Worse?

B.
Anonymous
Post 01/23/2026 21:09     Subject: Which is Worse?

Anonymous wrote:B

I think a lot of people lie to their spouse about how many people they slept with before them.


+1

DH lied. I caught him in the lie already but I never believed his lowball number in the first place.

If he’s have slept with a friend and caused me to lose a friend or friend group that’s way sh!++¥er than 70 randoms who don’t mean anything
Anonymous
Post 01/23/2026 20:57     Subject: Which is Worse?

B

I think a lot of people lie to their spouse about how many people they slept with before them.
Anonymous
Post 01/23/2026 20:18     Subject: Which is Worse?

These are both disgusting.
Anonymous
Post 01/23/2026 20:17     Subject: Which is Worse?

Anonymous wrote:I’m going to say that sleeping with your fiancée’s best friend during the engagement is worse than pretty much anything.


+1000
This because you broke the trust when you were in a committed relationship and engaged. There is a limit of self-sabotaging.
Anonymous
Post 01/23/2026 19:47     Subject: Which is Worse?

B
Anonymous
Post 01/23/2026 19:45     Subject: Which is Worse?

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote: Both are before marriage.

Partner A undercut the number of partners they slept with by 75.

Partner B slept with Partner A's best friend while they were engaged.


Let me get this right: Bob and Amy are engaged. Amy slept with 100 people before she met Bob, but told Bob it was 25. Bob slept with Amy's best friend, Charlene, while they were engaged. Is that correct?



If this is the case, I'd want to know why Bob was questioning Amy about partner count and why Amy felt the need to lie. Probably worried about judgement and that Bob would freak out.

Sleeping with someone else while engaged is far worse.
Anonymous
Post 01/23/2026 19:39     Subject: Which is Worse?

Anonymous wrote: Both are before marriage.

Partner A undercut the number of partners they slept with by 75.

Partner B slept with Partner A's best friend while they were engaged.


Let me get this right: Bob and Amy are engaged. Amy slept with 100 people before she met Bob, but told Bob it was 25. Bob slept with Amy's best friend, Charlene, while they were engaged. Is that correct?

Anonymous
Post 01/23/2026 19:39     Subject: Which is Worse?

I'd say they are equal in terms of relationship damage, essentially. Both are horrific lies to start a marriage on. Though sleeping with one's spouse's best friend is probably the larger emotional zinger.
Anonymous
Post 01/23/2026 19:36     Subject: Which is Worse?

Is this some BS you stole from Reddit?
Anonymous
Post 01/23/2026 19:32     Subject: Which is Worse?

I’m going to say that sleeping with your fiancée’s best friend during the engagement is worse than pretty much anything.
Anonymous
Post 01/23/2026 19:28     Subject: Which is Worse?

Both are before marriage.

Partner A undercut the number of partners they slept with by 75.

Partner B slept with Partner A's best friend while they were engaged.
Anonymous
Post 01/23/2026 19:23     Subject: Re:Which is Worse?

Are these things before or after your are married?
Anonymous
Post 01/23/2026 19:19     Subject: Which is Worse?

A. Lying to your spouse about sleeping with 75 people or:

B. Secretly sleeping with your fiancee's best friend two times?