Anonymous wrote:Another workaround to this problem is, if you are in a queen bed, buy a king comforter or duvet--fits fine with more overhang on the sides.

This is what we do.

Yes, we do this and it's great! I can toss or turn or tuck in my own duvet without disturbing my husband, who used to grumble (understandably).

Two other bonuses -- twin duvet covers are much easier to change than a queen or king size one, plus I love that we each get to choose a warmer or cooler duvet since he runs warmer than I do.

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Anonymous wrote:Another workaround to this problem is, if you are in a queen bed, buy a king comforter or duvet--fits fine with more overhang on the sides.

We do this, works for us, as spouse likes to wrap himself up tight and I like to sleep with one leg under and one leg out. Our duvet is a king and our bed is a queen

We have a roomy comforter but I still get jarred awake when DH is restless and tugging at blankets even if he doesn't tug them off of me. I'm bolt awake after that. I need this separate system.

Every person has their own blanket in a duvet.
I love my HA and Ikea duvets.
You can add a top sheet if you don't feel like washing the duvet every week. I'd lose the sheet as I move so much.

Anonymous wrote:Another workaround to this problem is, if you are in a queen bed, buy a king comforter or duvet--fits fine with more overhang on the sides.

We do this, works for us, as spouse likes to wrap himself up tight and I like to sleep with one leg under and one leg out. Our duvet is a king and our bed is a queen

We’ve used German style individual blankets for decades. It make soooooo much more sense! No top sheet, just a duvet cover you take off and wash.

We don’t use two twin duvets, but DH and I each have our own blanket and it is better that way

We have two quilts/blankets that go on top of one another when the bed is made and then I pull mine to my side and DH pulls his to his side. The euro style is probably more efficient but I like the look of a single blanket on my bed

Another workaround to this problem is, if you are in a queen bed, buy a king comforter or duvet--fits fine with more overhang on the sides.

No flat sheets. Europeans don't use them. Just a fitted sheet and then individual twin duvets.

If you’ve tried this, please share with me. Does it help you sleep better if you’re not disrupting each other by pulling on bedding?
My understanding is two people share a fitted sheet but have separate blankets. Do you use a flat sheet?