Anonymous
Post 01/19/2026 10:33     Subject: PSA: Valentines Day is in four weeks

Already made the reservation.
Anonymous
Post 01/19/2026 10:33     Subject: PSA: Valentines Day is in four weeks

OP,

What some women seem to prefer is to wait and do nothing so that when their husbands don't come up with whatever they wished for in their heads but didn't communicate, they can then have the great joy of being extremely upset and posting on DCUM about it.

Happens every year.

Case in point: a poster above said they were sure their husband would do nothing. And what are they doing or communicating? Nothing either.

Anonymous
Post 01/19/2026 10:16     Subject: PSA: Valentines Day is in four weeks

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Consumerism at its worst! I forbid my DH from getting me anything 😁 we’ll have a nice dinner at home and bottle of wine together though.



Stop being a curmudgeon. If you are at a point in your relationship where dinner with your spouse and a glass of wine is a special event and not a “good way to end a Tuesday,” then you REALLY need to go out.


NP. I think that’s PP’s point…it’s not a special day for them.


Bah humbug
Anonymous
Post 01/19/2026 09:43     Subject: PSA: Valentines Day is in four weeks

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Consumerism at its worst! I forbid my DH from getting me anything 😁 we’ll have a nice dinner at home and bottle of wine together though.



Stop being a curmudgeon. If you are at a point in your relationship where dinner with your spouse and a glass of wine is a special event and not a “good way to end a Tuesday,” then you REALLY need to go out.


NP. I think that’s PP’s point…it’s not a special day for them.
Anonymous
Post 01/19/2026 09:29     Subject: PSA: Valentines Day is in four weeks

Anonymous wrote:Consumerism at its worst! I forbid my DH from getting me anythin[b]😁 we’ll have a nice dinner at home and bottle of wine together though.


🙄
Anonymous
Post 01/19/2026 09:19     Subject: PSA: Valentines Day is in four weeks

Valentine's Day is also my spouse's birthday. We stay home and cook his favorite dinner and make a cake.

I used to wait tables and I try to avoid the busy days (Valentine's Day, Easter Brunch and Mother's Day).
Anonymous
Post 01/19/2026 09:10     Subject: PSA: Valentines Day is in four weeks

Uh, yeah I remember that holiday! It’s the one right after thanksgiving, Christmas, my son’s birthday, new years, my other son’s birthday, my birthday and DH’s birthday on groundhogs day.

If we have money for a box of chocolate by then and if they save me any by the time I get home it’ll be a miracle

Anonymous
Post 01/19/2026 08:48     Subject: PSA: Valentines Day is in four weeks

Anonymous wrote:Consumerism at its worst! I forbid my DH from getting me anything 😁 we’ll have a nice dinner at home and bottle of wine together though.



Stop being a curmudgeon. If you are at a point in your relationship where dinner with your spouse and a glass of wine is a special event and not a “good way to end a Tuesday,” then you REALLY need to go out.
Anonymous
Post 01/19/2026 08:17     Subject: PSA: Valentines Day is in four weeks

Consumerism at its worst! I forbid my DH from getting me anything 😁 we’ll have a nice dinner at home and bottle of wine together though.
Anonymous
Post 01/19/2026 08:14     Subject: PSA: Valentines Day is in four weeks

Adore me is populating my IG feed - am thinking I may buy something
Anonymous
Post 01/18/2026 22:56     Subject: PSA: Valentines Day is in four weeks

Pretty sure I'm getting nothing but it's the way it is.
Anonymous
Post 01/18/2026 20:03     Subject: Re:PSA: Valentines Day is in four weeks

My boyfriend is buying me a very nice bracelet and a trip to Turks & Caicos.
Anonymous
Post 01/18/2026 20:02     Subject: PSA: Valentines Day is in four weeks

I’m going to buy a nice bottle of bourbon and get a nice buzz on.
Anonymous
Post 01/18/2026 20:00     Subject: PSA: Valentines Day is in four weeks

Anonymous wrote:Time to make a reservation, hire a babysitter, shop for a gift, order new lingerie!
You’re on your phone screwing around anyway. Just do it now .

the one holiday that reminds us we are single
Anonymous
Post 01/18/2026 19:59     Subject: PSA: Valentines Day is in four weeks

Time to make a reservation, hire a babysitter, shop for a gift, order new lingerie!
You’re on your phone screwing around anyway. Just do it now .