Anonymous
Post 01/19/2026 09:39     Subject: Tests are good, am I in perimenopause?

Go see a new doctor ..
Anonymous
Post 01/19/2026 07:55     Subject: Tests are good, am I in perimenopause?

Hi OP - take this with a grain of salt, but I am your age (almost 45) and had some similar symptoms. I did the blood test on day 3 of my cycle and the numbers were also fine. That said, I met with a menopause doctor and they recommended trying a low dose BC. I'm about 2 weeks in. The first week, I felt pregnant in part, but that has mostly abated and I have noticed an improvement in my mood and energy. It's still very new, but I'm hoping it continues.
Anonymous
Post 01/18/2026 21:21     Subject: Tests are good, am I in perimenopause?

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Sure your hormones change in your mid-40s but I am really not clear why everyone wants to jump on the medicalization bandwagon. Just do what you know you should do - eat better, exercise more, lift weights. Most likely you have several more years until you hit any particular symptoms to be treated (if ever).


It's okay to just not participate in this conversation if you don't have anything helpful to add. I would LOVE to not jump on the "medicalization bandwagon" but when you're in your early 40's and "doing what you know you should do" but still experiencing symptoms like waking up nightly in a pool of sweat, random crippling anxiety with no explanation, joint pain, mood swings and crazy periods, it's pretty hard to tolerate. When you've ruled out most other things, probably worth trying the "medicalization" route. HRT has resolved just about all of it. It must be nice that you haven't experienced any of that and assume other people are just dumb sheep, we're all really happy for you.


I don’t see OP saying any of that. I see her saying she has other issues that could cause her symptoms and her Dr told her he didn’t think it was due to perimenopause.

If OP came here saying, “I have hot flashes every night, my dr says my AMH is very low, and my cycle is now 10 days longer …” then sure, time to talk about it.

But OP is actually and object lesson about why the “peri” mania is potentially harmful for women.
Anonymous
Post 01/18/2026 21:18     Subject: Tests are good, am I in perimenopause?

Anonymous wrote:Sure your hormones change in your mid-40s but I am really not clear why everyone wants to jump on the medicalization bandwagon. Just do what you know you should do - eat better, exercise more, lift weights. Most likely you have several more years until you hit any particular symptoms to be treated (if ever).


It's okay to just not participate in this conversation if you don't have anything helpful to add. I would LOVE to not jump on the "medicalization bandwagon" but when you're in your early 40's and "doing what you know you should do" but still experiencing symptoms like waking up nightly in a pool of sweat, random crippling anxiety with no explanation, joint pain, mood swings and crazy periods, it's pretty hard to tolerate. When you've ruled out most other things, probably worth trying the "medicalization" route. HRT has resolved just about all of it. It must be nice that you haven't experienced any of that and assume other people are just dumb sheep, we're all really happy for you.
Anonymous
Post 01/18/2026 21:15     Subject: Tests are good, am I in perimenopause?

Anonymous wrote:Tests only show one day, and are therefore not diagnostic because in peri our hormones shift daily - it’s not a linear decline.


That’s not true - an AMH test is much more informative for someone OP’s age.
Anonymous
Post 01/18/2026 21:09     Subject: Tests are good, am I in perimenopause?

Sure your hormones change in your mid-40s but I am really not clear why everyone wants to jump on the medicalization bandwagon. Just do what you know you should do - eat better, exercise more, lift weights. Most likely you have several more years until you hit any particular symptoms to be treated (if ever).
Anonymous
Post 01/18/2026 20:53     Subject: Tests are good, am I in perimenopause?

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Your doctor is an idiot. Blood draws are only a one day snapshot in time, and do not show the progression of your hormone cycles compared to years prior.

I'm a 45 year old research scientist, and out of curiosity, I've been using the Inito monitor to track my hormone levels for the past few years. Ostensibly sold to become pregnant, it's actually very informative for any issue that might arise from the reproductive hormones it tests (urine metabolite of progesterone, urine metabolite of estrogen, LH and FSH). It can demonstrate whether you have PCOS, for example.

What I've noticed is that my estrogen and LH variations are a lot wider than in previous years, which explains some of my peri symptoms of insomnia and anxiety. When my progesterone craters, I feel tired. When my estrogen peaks, I can't sleep. It's interesting. (Confounding factor: hydration levels can mess with the results, so it's important to be hydrated to about the same level every day, so that urine concentration is as stable as possible.)

But if you were to take one single snapshot of any day of my cycle, it would tell you nothing, apart perhaps that I'm not in full menopause yet.

If you have symptoms of perimenopause and you're in your 40s, chances are you're in perimenopause.

However you want to check your thyroid and iron levels, and perhaps other things, to make sure no additional medical problem is causing your symptoms. Fatigue is a common factor in many diseases, including hypothyroidism, which is quite frequent past middle age, and also a symptom in anemia.



Op here. That's what I was thinking about the test and coming to a conclusion. I do have PCOS and Hashimoto(low thyroid) and have been losing my hair and gained weight. I am not sure what else to do but I'll definitely go to my OBGYN.


Fatigue, hair loss and weight gain are all symptoms of hypothyroidism. You might need either a medication dosage tweak, or a diet tweak: there are many foods that interfere with uptake of Synthroid/levothyroxine. Grapefruit is particularly bad (avoid entirely), but so is too much fiber, or minerals like calcium, ingested within 4 hours of your medication dose. You can ask your regular doc for the usual standard bloodwork panel. And yes, your Gyn is the best person to ask about peri symptoms.
Anonymous
Post 01/18/2026 20:05     Subject: Tests are good, am I in perimenopause?

Anonymous wrote:Your doctor is an idiot. Blood draws are only a one day snapshot in time, and do not show the progression of your hormone cycles compared to years prior.

I'm a 45 year old research scientist, and out of curiosity, I've been using the Inito monitor to track my hormone levels for the past few years. Ostensibly sold to become pregnant, it's actually very informative for any issue that might arise from the reproductive hormones it tests (urine metabolite of progesterone, urine metabolite of estrogen, LH and FSH). It can demonstrate whether you have PCOS, for example.

What I've noticed is that my estrogen and LH variations are a lot wider than in previous years, which explains some of my peri symptoms of insomnia and anxiety. When my progesterone craters, I feel tired. When my estrogen peaks, I can't sleep. It's interesting. (Confounding factor: hydration levels can mess with the results, so it's important to be hydrated to about the same level every day, so that urine concentration is as stable as possible.)

But if you were to take one single snapshot of any day of my cycle, it would tell you nothing, apart perhaps that I'm not in full menopause yet.

If you have symptoms of perimenopause and you're in your 40s, chances are you're in perimenopause.

However you want to check your thyroid and iron levels, and perhaps other things, to make sure no additional medical problem is causing your symptoms. Fatigue is a common factor in many diseases, including hypothyroidism, which is quite frequent past middle age, and also a symptom in anemia.



Op here. That's what I was thinking about the test and coming to a conclusion. I do have PCOS and Hashimoto(low thyroid) and have been losing my hair and gained weight. I am not sure what else to do but I'll definitely go to my OBGYN.
Anonymous
Post 01/18/2026 20:02     Subject: Tests are good, am I in perimenopause?

wow, this is crazy that OP's PCP ran her hormones and says that everything is fine. Peri can't be diagnosed by numbers. OP, you need a need doc, maybe OBGYN.
Anonymous
Post 01/18/2026 19:54     Subject: Tests are good, am I in perimenopause?

Your doctor is an idiot. Blood draws are only a one day snapshot in time, and do not show the progression of your hormone cycles compared to years prior.

I'm a 45 year old research scientist, and out of curiosity, I've been using the Inito monitor to track my hormone levels for the past few years. Ostensibly sold to become pregnant, it's actually very informative for any issue that might arise from the reproductive hormones it tests (urine metabolite of progesterone, urine metabolite of estrogen, LH and FSH). It can demonstrate whether you have PCOS, for example.

What I've noticed is that my estrogen and LH variations are a lot wider than in previous years, which explains some of my peri symptoms of insomnia and anxiety. When my progesterone craters, I feel tired. When my estrogen peaks, I can't sleep. It's interesting. (Confounding factor: hydration levels can mess with the results, so it's important to be hydrated to about the same level every day, so that urine concentration is as stable as possible.)

But if you were to take one single snapshot of any day of my cycle, it would tell you nothing, apart perhaps that I'm not in full menopause yet.

If you have symptoms of perimenopause and you're in your 40s, chances are you're in perimenopause.

However you want to check your thyroid and iron levels, and perhaps other things, to make sure no additional medical problem is causing your symptoms. Fatigue is a common factor in many diseases, including hypothyroidism, which is quite frequent past middle age, and also a symptom in anemia.

Anonymous
Post 01/18/2026 19:40     Subject: Tests are good, am I in perimenopause?

Your doctor is completely uneducated on perimenopause and it’s not uncommon unfortunately
Anonymous
Post 01/18/2026 15:20     Subject: Tests are good, am I in perimenopause?

Peri is diagnosed based on symptoms, not on a hormone panel which is only a snapshot of that moment in time. There's a decent change your estrogen would be in a drastically different place a couple days or even a couple of hours later.

Highly recommend that you log your symptoms for a few weeks and go to your gyno--who would (or at least should) be much better versed in peri and could give you some feedback.
Anonymous
Post 01/18/2026 15:17     Subject: Tests are good, am I in perimenopause?

Tests only show one day, and are therefore not diagnostic because in peri our hormones shift daily - it’s not a linear decline.
Anonymous
Post 01/18/2026 15:15     Subject: Tests are good, am I in perimenopause?

Eat healthy food, exercise regularly, sleep at the same time every day. Be social and meditate if you can.

Nothing else matters.
Anonymous
Post 01/18/2026 15:11     Subject: Tests are good, am I in perimenopause?

My sex drive is down and also feeling a lot tired and body aches at my age of 44F. My PCP thought I could be in Perimenopause and got tests down for my hormones. everything came back fine and he is saying that I am not in perimenopause. My symptoms along with mood swings, weight gain shows symptoms of peri so wondering what else I could do to get it confirmed?