Anonymous
Post 01/16/2026 13:30     Subject: If you found this out what would you do
Anonymous wrote:If you found out that your husband slept with his best friends girlfriend ( now wife) while in college 15 years ago, would you tell the friend? Apparently they were all friends, and my now husband had a crush on her. I don’t feel threatened by this woman, but if your best friend slept with your now wife, wound you want to know? They have kids.

They live far away from us and it’s a meetup every few years.

Did you just find out about this? How did it come up in conversation? No. You don't tell anyone about it. They are married and have kids. If she desired your dh, she would be married to him now and not the other guy.
Anonymous
Post 01/16/2026 13:28     Subject: If you found this out what would you do
I mean, do you want to get divorced? Because blowing up drama like this could cause some big problems.
Anonymous
Post 01/16/2026 13:27     Subject: If you found this out what would you do
Why would you bring this up, OP?!
Anonymous
Post 01/16/2026 13:23     Subject: Re:If you found this out what would you do
Oh, God no. Why stir up college s*** at this point?
Anonymous
Post 01/16/2026 13:23     Subject: If you found this out what would you do
Anonymous wrote:If you found out that your husband slept with his best friends girlfriend ( now wife) while in college 15 years ago, would you tell the friend? Apparently they were all friends, and my now husband had a crush on her. I don’t feel threatened by this woman, but if your best friend slept with your now wife, wound you want to know? They have kids.

They live far away from us and it’s a meetup every few years.


MYOB and shut up.

It was college 15 years ago who the hell cares.
Anonymous
Post 01/16/2026 13:22     Subject: If you found this out what would you do
Well I would want to know.
Anonymous
Post 01/16/2026 13:22     Subject: If you found this out what would you do
I would do nothing because it's not a big deal, WELL in the past, and I'm not a shit stirring drama llama.
Anonymous
Post 01/16/2026 13:14     Subject: If you found this out what would you do
How did this even come up after all these years?
Anonymous
Post 01/16/2026 13:09     Subject: If you found this out what would you do
Absolutely not, da fkkk! That's wild that you would even consider doing this.
Anonymous
Post 01/16/2026 13:09     Subject: If you found this out what would you do
no
Anonymous
Post 01/16/2026 13:09     Subject: If you found this out what would you do
Are you certain your husband's friend doesn't already know?
Anonymous
Post 01/16/2026 13:09     Subject: Re:If you found this out what would you do
No, what.. your not on your hubbys side?
Anonymous
Post 01/16/2026 13:09     Subject: If you found this out what would you do
Anonymous wrote:No. They weren't married. It was college. It seems like you're looking for drama.

+1
Leave it alone.
Anonymous
Post 01/16/2026 13:08     Subject: If you found this out what would you do
No. They weren't married. It was college. It seems like you're looking for drama.
Anonymous
Post 01/16/2026 13:06     Subject: If you found this out what would you do
If you found out that your husband slept with his best friends girlfriend ( now wife) while in college 15 years ago, would you tell the friend? Apparently they were all friends, and my now husband had a crush on her. I don’t feel threatened by this woman, but if your best friend slept with your now wife, wound you want to know? They have kids.

They live far away from us and it’s a meetup every few years.