Anonymous
Post 01/14/2026 18:40     Subject: SSRIs in OLD: should it be mandatory to disclose?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:What "negatives" do you have in mind, OP?


Usually these people can't perform sexually. DP.


I wish....
Anonymous
Post 01/14/2026 18:39     Subject: Re:SSRIs in OLD: should it be mandatory to disclose?
Anonymous wrote:If this is a big concern/dealbreaker, why not just make it clear in your profile that sex is important for you (if that is indeed the case)? I’m guessing if you did this, men who know they might have performance issues won’t reach out?


Why are they even on OLD if they can't perform?
Anonymous
Post 01/14/2026 18:36     Subject: Re:SSRIs in OLD: should it be mandatory to disclose?
If this is a big concern/dealbreaker, why not just make it clear in your profile that sex is important for you (if that is indeed the case)? I’m guessing if you did this, men who know they might have performance issues won’t reach out?
Anonymous
Post 01/14/2026 16:00     Subject: SSRIs in OLD: should it be mandatory to disclose?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:What "negatives" do you have in mind, OP?


Usually these people can't perform sexually. DP.


Simply not true.
Anonymous
Post 01/14/2026 15:46     Subject: SSRIs in OLD: should it be mandatory to disclose?
Anonymous wrote:What "negatives" do you have in mind, OP?


Usually these people can't perform sexually. DP.
Anonymous
Post 01/14/2026 15:45     Subject: Re:SSRIs in OLD: should it be mandatory to disclose?
Anonymous wrote:I'm not OP but had issue with men on SSRIs. One of side effects is intimacy: they either can't get it up or can't finish for hours.
And that happens to men not on SSRIs too.
Anonymous
Post 01/14/2026 15:44     Subject: Re:SSRIs in OLD: should it be mandatory to disclose?
Anonymous wrote:I'm not OP but had issue with men on SSRIs. One of side effects is intimacy: they either can't get it up or can't finish for hours.


Most men past a certain age have the same issue. Most women have health issues too. It's so shortsighted and hypocritical to act like you'll never have an issue yourself and discount what could be an amazing partner based on this.
Anonymous
Post 01/14/2026 15:43     Subject: SSRIs in OLD: should it be mandatory to disclose?
Only if being a (maha?) dimwit is subject to mandatory disclosure too, op!
Anonymous
Post 01/14/2026 15:37     Subject: Re:SSRIs in OLD: should it be mandatory to disclose?
I'm not OP but had issue with men on SSRIs. One of side effects is intimacy: they either can't get it up or can't finish for hours.
Anonymous
Post 01/14/2026 15:34     Subject: SSRIs in OLD: should it be mandatory to disclose?
You're an idiot. My DH has been on an SSRI for decades and NO issues in that dept.
Anonymous
Post 01/14/2026 15:33     Subject: SSRIs in OLD: should it be mandatory to disclose?
What "negatives" do you have in mind, OP?
Anonymous
Post 01/14/2026 15:27     Subject: Re:SSRIs in OLD: should it be mandatory to disclose?
You're not only extremely stupid and uninformed, but down right evil.

No one owes you their medical information you moron. I hope you never find another date. No one should have to put up with your mental illness.
Anonymous
Post 01/14/2026 15:03     Subject: SSRIs in OLD: should it be mandatory to disclose?
I’m guessing you also posted the “should people with mental illness be able to have kids” thread. Time to get off your computer and talk to real people. Not random strangers.
Anonymous
Post 01/14/2026 14:54     Subject: SSRIs in OLD: should it be mandatory to disclose?
That is medical information so absolutely not
Anonymous
Post 01/14/2026 14:53     Subject: SSRIs in OLD: should it be mandatory to disclose?
Have had far too many bad experiences where I’ve met someone, only to later discover they are on SSRIs ( and all the negatives which that entails). No thanks !

Should it be mandatory on OLD to disclose this up front?