Anonymous
01/14/2026 14:25
Subject: Female CIS Infidelity why!?!
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Hmm. I'm always amused by the virtue-signaling on DCUM. Live and let live, OP. You take what you want and you pay for it. I invite you to cogitate on the latter part of the sentence.
Taking morality out of it, getting so worked up because one time someone "did not want my overture" is a recipe for just never having a relationship. There is pretty much no one out there who will have to say no to sex sometimes. Tired, sick, busy, has to work early, etc. Even the most Barney Stinson type will say no sometimes. Getting enraged over that is nuts.
True. PP you replied to. But I'd say that's the least of OP's problems
Anonymous
01/14/2026 14:11
Subject: Female CIS Infidelity why!?!
Anonymous wrote:Hmm. I'm always amused by the virtue-signaling on DCUM. Live and let live, OP. You take what you want and you pay for it. I invite you to cogitate on the latter part of the sentence.
Taking morality out of it, getting so worked up because one time someone "did not want my overture" is a recipe for just never having a relationship. There is pretty much no one out there who will have to say no to sex sometimes. Tired, sick, busy, has to work early, etc. Even the most Barney Stinson type will say no sometimes. Getting enraged over that is nuts.
Anonymous
01/14/2026 14:06
Subject: Female CIS Infidelity why!?!
Hmm. I'm always amused by the virtue-signaling on DCUM. Live and let live, OP. You take what you want and you pay for it. I invite you to cogitate on the latter part of the sentence.
Anonymous
01/14/2026 13:56
Subject: Female CIS Infidelity why!?!
So many +1’s above. Cheating indicates a lack of integrity, self respect and confidence.
Anonymous
01/14/2026 13:54
Subject: Re:Female CIS Infidelity why!?!
Anonymous wrote:Puke.
"You didn't value me so I had to cheat on you" is the most pathological projection possible. If someone doesn't value you, want what you're offering, and/or give you what you need, LEAVE. Using "I didn't get my way" as an excuse to cheat isn't the logical flow there, it's a disordered way of thinking you're entitled to things you're not, and a pathological need for immediate gratification of your own wants, even at the expense of your integrity.
Absolutely pathetic behavior, regardless of the gender/genitals of the person indulging in it.
This 100%
Anonymous
01/14/2026 09:48
Subject: Female CIS Infidelity why!?!
I'm sorry, what? A guy turned you down once so you cheated? I mean, good lord, being that upset over your partner turning you down for sex once is beyond bonkers.
Also if you're unhappy in a relationship, just break up. Seriously. I don't know why this is hard for people.
Also if you're unhappy in a relationship, just break up. Seriously. I don't know why this is hard for people.
Anonymous
01/14/2026 09:29
Subject: Female CIS Infidelity why!?!
I hope you're under the age of 23 because this is extremely childish thinking.
Anonymous
01/14/2026 09:25
Subject: Re:Female CIS Infidelity why!?!
People with morals and integrity don't act this way. They aren't swayed by how others treat them, but know that they are responsible for their own behavior.
Anonymous
01/14/2026 07:26
Subject: Female CIS Infidelity why!?!
So, just leave. Don't be scum and cheat.
Anonymous
01/14/2026 07:16
Subject: Re:Female CIS Infidelity why!?!
Puke.
"You didn't value me so I had to cheat on you" is the most pathological projection possible. If someone doesn't value you, want what you're offering, and/or give you what you need, LEAVE. Using "I didn't get my way" as an excuse to cheat isn't the logical flow there, it's a disordered way of thinking you're entitled to things you're not, and a pathological need for immediate gratification of your own wants, even at the expense of your integrity.
Absolutely pathetic behavior, regardless of the gender/genitals of the person indulging in it.
"You didn't value me so I had to cheat on you" is the most pathological projection possible. If someone doesn't value you, want what you're offering, and/or give you what you need, LEAVE. Using "I didn't get my way" as an excuse to cheat isn't the logical flow there, it's a disordered way of thinking you're entitled to things you're not, and a pathological need for immediate gratification of your own wants, even at the expense of your integrity.
Absolutely pathetic behavior, regardless of the gender/genitals of the person indulging in it.
Anonymous
01/14/2026 01:32
Subject: Re:Female CIS Infidelity why!?!
… and it works the same way for men.
Anonymous
01/14/2026 01:28
Subject: Female CIS Infidelity why!?!
It was simple. It started the night you did not want my overture.
You don’t want me? Who might? Of course. Plenty of guys.
The door opened, and the cat left.
My point - women hold a ton of identity in their sexuality and if you rob them of it, they will naturally stray.
Prove me wrong.
You don’t want me? Who might? Of course. Plenty of guys.
The door opened, and the cat left.
My point - women hold a ton of identity in their sexuality and if you rob them of it, they will naturally stray.
Prove me wrong.